Avoidant left me
Two months ago, my avoidant ex broke up with me on a completely random day. I’ve been doing okay, but it’s been really hard. It hurts looking back and seeing someone who once wanted every minute by my side turn into someone who wouldn’t even tell me she loved me anymore, and then just leave with no explanation other than “I need this.”
I just deleted or at least moved to trash 500 pictures of her so I wouldn’t have to keep seeing them. I tried reaching out, but she left me on seen.
I keep remembering how things were in the relationship. She hated my gifts, never wanted or showed affection, and even hit me once. What hurts the most is seeing her give everyone else time and love, but never me, and now I just feel thrown away.
But the hardest part is knowing that at one point, it really was perfect. Now she acts like she fine without me and is cruel.