Feeling disgusted - a warning to NOT lower your standards

Is there any way to report after unmatching him after 30 days? Am I being too harsh I live in a big city and I just don’t want this to happen to anyone else.

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25f So I just went on a first date with a guy I met on hinge 30M, I wasn’t super attracted to him but I find that attraction for me is not instantaneous like I need to build an emotional connection first. He seemed sweet in the in app messages and we had common interests like reading fiction which I thought was a green flag so we moved to insta.

Anyways we met up and brought icecream and he was friendly but looking back maybe a bit too complementary about my figure and how he really liked how “athletic” I was. I laughed at his athletic comment cause the only main exercise I do is walk my dog so I’m no athlete. I thought that would be it after I brushed it off I’m not good with taking compliments but then he started talking about how he thought I would stand him up. I asked him why and he said that skinny girls never match with him and how he was in exact words “tired of whales in his dm”. I was in shock for the rest of the date and thankfully I was in a public place so I was able to leave and blocked him right away since I just felt so disgusted.

I’m still in shock at the language he used and I find it a bit ironic especially so since he’s not the most fit looking guy (that’s not my type anyways) plus 30 is a bit older than what I usually date. At 30 I thought he would be more mature especially so how he seemed to read as a hobby. I usually date same age or at most 1-2 years older so maybe that might be why too. But he had a bit of a dad body as well and tbh that didn’t even matter to me until he brought up the whale comment.

Anyways my friend is saying that I should have reported him and lowkey I wished I did since I felt kind of fetishized with some of his comments as well. But I guess you live and you learn and I’m going to be taking a break and perhaps deleting the app since that was a really negative experience.

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u/Kaleidoscope19 — 1 day ago
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June lsat

I took the lsat on Saturday had lr lr lr and rc and I noticed there weren’t a lot of main point / main purpose questions for my rc . Just wondering if anyone who took the LSAT in June also had the same experience?

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u/Kaleidoscope19 — 3 days ago

Fanfic recommendations?

Hey everyone I would really appreciate some fanfic recs centred on the career districts specifically on district 1.

Some good ones I have read recently are owned which is amazing and Like Troubled water running cold which is sadly unfinished but sooo good

Thanks in advance!

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u/Kaleidoscope19 — 4 days ago

Career theories for district 1 and 2

Ok so I’ve been rereading the hunger games trilogy and I had two theories that I wanted to talk about specifically for the career districts 1 and 2 and hopefully you all can share yours

My first theory is a bit dark but it’s that district 1 sent marvel and glimmer even though they were not the best tributes for the hunger game but were sent anyway by their district for the 74th games. This is because district 1 was saving their best tributes for the 75th quarter quell. I think this is plausible because district 1 was super close with silka for the 2nd quarter quell and she lost to haymitch. Another reason is that the quarter quell might seem more “glorious” to the career tributes and at this point the districts did not know what the twist was for the quarter quell so it would make sense for them to save their most promising tributes for the quarter quell to me. I also think this is reflected in their scores since Marvel and glimmer scored 9 and 8 respectively which is lower than Cato and Cloves ten.

Which brings me to my second theory for district two that district two was more desperate for a victor than the other career districts. This is because prior to the 74th games their most recent and only victor was Enobaria during the 62- 74th games period. if we were to compare that to the other career districts - district 1 had back to back victors 63 and 64th games gloss and cashmere and then Augustus in the 67th while district 4 had finnick for the 65th and Annie for the 70th games. Not to mention cashmere gloss and finnick were all pretty young victors when they won their games. This leads me to think that district two was desperate to break out of their victor freeze with Cato and Clove and sent their best in for the 74th instead of waiting like district 1 for the 75th. Another reason that I think adds to this is that with less recent victors the district would be less favoured by the capital and it would be falling behind its other fellow career districts in terms of wealth and resources.

What are your thoughts are these plausible and do you have any career districts theories.

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u/Kaleidoscope19 — 8 days ago
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Currently freaking out

Im registered for june and I've been averaging 157-162 in my practice tests with blind review (169-172) i just did practice test 138 and i got 153. I haven't gotten a score this low since the start of my studying. I'm using 7sage and it looks like ive messed up reading comprehension badly ( 16 questions to review). My reading comprehension fluctuates a lot during timed but is close to perfect for blind review. Does anyone have any tips or any kind words to keep a girl from crashing out.

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u/Kaleidoscope19 — 18 days ago