u/KalistaAirlines

The more I learn about my circumstances and the more I love my bio mother the more I think about the life that could have been but wasn't.

The more I learn about my circumstances and the more I love my bio mother the more I think about the life that could have been but wasn't.

Long story short, my bio mother abandoned me soon after giving birth to me. Circumstances were complex, she was poor and after 2 years in the orphanage I was adopted.

I found her when I was 19. And she wanted contact with me and affectionate. I forgave her and we have a wonderful relationship

However, some of my adoptive relatives (who know nothing about her) are telling me to cut her off. They told me not to trust that woman and telling me not to worry when she's sick or even be sad when she dies. "You don't need that in your life" they told me

Now, I've read some fatwas saying that you are still obliged to be dutiful to mother even if she abandoned you, and my bio mother has repented and obviously wants a relationship with me