u/KeiahRosh

Basically I got into a situationship I \[23F\] and him \[24M\] with someone for almost five months - we clicked so badly, however he had history of disappearing randomly like he did for a week last April but whenever he returns he'd tell me the summary of what happened and all shit

He was the type to 24/7 updates me and calls me every night to sleep.

We got super close, and we went to multiple dates as well. He would pick me up from my work for dates and drive an hour to bring me back home. He was my first in everything.

Fast forward to June, we had so much intimacy. There was a day he suddenly disappeared for more than 24 hours and when he returned he said he got hospitalized turns out it was his 7yr relationship ex's birthday. I let it pass thinking that maybe he was just really sick.

Then, it happened again.. he went cold towards me and he disappeared again. Which was last Saturday. When he returned he apologized so much and said he had a lot going on in life and he's trying his best to keep up.

I tried to forgive.. we went back to normal - however he started acting so distant as if his energy is divided into somewhere.

I'd see him constantly online in whatsapp which is not much a used app in our country.

He still sleep-called me and was still showering me with updates and reassurances.. until last Wednesday, he shut off the night with me by saying "I'll be busy now, we're on the way to the hotel" coz he was with his family

The next day, I stalked his sister's page, turns out his ex was with him in the family dinner and his sister's graduation party. I felt really confused because just last week he as badmouthing me how materialistic and aggresive his ex was - and he was telling me how much he loves me.

It’s been four days and he is still ghosting me. I saw his ex followed him again on his socials - and he would vew my story and did not bother to even like it.
I feel so bad as if I lost a piece of myself, he was my routine everytime something inconvenient happens to him I am the one he runs to. I knew his entire family and his friends, his schedule.. it just hurt so badly that there was not even an explanation from him.

It just does not make sense to me at all, he would whisper how much he loves me whenever he drowns me with kisses. It is so unfair. I just want to hear from him again.

I sent him a long confrontional message and he did not even bother to view it.

Basically I got into a situationship I [23F] and him [24M] with someone for almost five months - we clicked so badly, however he had history of disappearing randomly like he did for a week last April but whenever he returns he'd tell me the summary of what happened and all shit

He was the type to 24/7 updates me and calls me every night to sleep.

We got super close, and we went to multiple dates as well. He would pick me up from my work for dates and drive an hour to bring me back home. He was my first in everything.

Fast forward to June, we had so much intimacy. There was a day he suddenly disappeared for more than 24 hours and when he returned he said he got hospitalized turns out it was his 7yr relationship ex's birthday. I let it pass thinking that maybe he was just really sick.

Then, it happened again.. he went cold towards me and he disappeared again. Which was last Saturday. When he returned he apologized so much and said he had a lot going on in life and he's trying his best to keep up.

I tried to forgive.. we went back to normal - however he started acting so distant as if his energy is divided into somewhere.

I'd see him constantly online in whatsapp which is not much a used app in our country.

He still sleep-called me and was still showering me with updates and reassurances.. until last Wednesday, he shut off the night with me by saying "I'll be busy now, we're on the way to the hotel" coz he was with his family

The next day, I stalked his sister's page, turns out his ex was with him in the family dinner and his sister's graduation party. I felt really confused because just last week he as badmouthing me how materialistic and aggresive his ex was - and he was telling me how much he loves me.

It’s been four days and he is still ghosting me. I saw his ex followed him again on his socials - and he would vew my story and did not bother to even like it.
I feel so bad as if I lost a piece of myself, he was my routine everytime something inconvenient happens to him I am the one he runs to. I knew his entire family and his friends, his schedule.. it just hurt so badly that there was not even an explanation from him.

I sent him a long confrontional message and he did not even bother to view it.