u/Kelekona99

Hey! I got my septum done a year ago at 14g. A couple months after it healed I went down to a 16g because I saw jewelry I liked. I went to my piercer to help me stretch back up to 14g. She forced it in with no lube whatsoever and it hurt like hell, but it worked. Now I want to go down to 12g.

I've tried it twice now with both a straight taper and a pincher, using a lot of oil. Both the straight and the pincher could not go in at the thickest point even when I tried to force it. Adding more oil did not help. What am I doing wrong?

So at 13 halfway through the school year (maybe December) I did some research because being a girl felt wrong. I thought that I'd determined I was a trans man, and by all means I absolutely present myself as that. I use he/they pronouns with a preference for he, I don't mind they sometimes. I bind and dress masculine.

I'm 16 now, and at this point I don't want top surgery for the foreseeable future (maybe ever) and I definitely don't want bottom surgery ever. I'm going through the process of starting testosterone. But there's a part of me I haven't told anyone for fear of persecution. Sometimes I don't mind my body. Sometimes I want to wear dresses and skirts and girl-y things, sometimes I don't want to bind my chest. I don't want to be called she, but I want to wear dresses and skirts sometimes. What is this called? Genderfluid??