u/Keojun

My partner(F) and (M)I (for 5 years) have broken up for 1 month and 1 week already, she seems to be moving on and I am stuck here doing everything that I can to prove that I can be better and change for her.

I am not a perfect partner, I have lapses and I tend to forget things so much, that's why I created a note about her, and try my very best to be better every time. I still love her very very very much but I want to be better and show that I have improved too. I can't move on and I probably wouldn't, because I always feel like she's always my last destination, she's my endgame.

I need hugs, my thoughts are eating me up and I can't bear to think that she hates me or doesn't love me anymore. I also can barely move and have any motivation to do anything, even play or watch.

Hello, r/PHGamerPals!

We love seeing the community grow and form new groups. However, to maintain the quality of the subreddit and reduce the clutter of low-effort spam (e.g., “Sali kayo sa Discord namin, madami games!”), we are introducing new guidelines for promoting gaming communities and Discord servers.

Beginning immediately:

1. All posts promoting a community, gaming group, or Discord server must use the SERVER RECRUITMENT flair. Generic LFG flairs cannot be used for server invites.
2. Recruitment posts must explicitly state the name of the server by including Server Name: or Discord Name: anywhere in the post body.
3. No more low-effort recruitment. To ensure high-quality communities, your post must be substantial and detailed (minimum of 300 characters).
   • Tip: Tell us about your server! What are the main games played? What is the general age group or vibe? When are your members most active?
4. Posts that use the wrong flair, lack a server name, or fall under the length requirement will be automatically removed. Authors may immediately resubmit after expanding their description and adding the required details.

This is not a ban on server promotions. The goal is to keep the subreddit organized, give well-maintained communities the spotlight they deserve, and help players find the right server for their playstyle rather than just clicking blind links.

The moderation team will monitor the subreddit's activity and adjust the system based on community feedback.

Thank you for understanding.

Hello, r/PHGamerPals!

Valorant remains welcome in our community. However, because Valorant is currently one of the most frequently posted games, we are introducing a 30-day trial to improve organization and give posts for other games better visibility.

Beginning on June 16, 2026:

1. Standalone Valorant posts must use the VALORANT LFG flair.
2. Standalone posts must include:

Age:

Rank:

Preferred Mode:

Schedule/Availability:

Mic/Comms:

Looking For:

3. Quick invitations, party codes, and one-line posts such as “Valo?” or “Tara Valo” should be submitted as comments in the latest pinned Weekly Valorant LFG Megathread.

4. Incomplete posts may be automatically removed. Authors may immediately resubmit after completing the required information.

5. Valorant discussions, guides, questions, and other non-LFG content remain allowed under the appropriate flair.

This is not a bann on Valorant. The goal is to keep the subreddit organized while continuing to welcome Valorant players.

The moderation team will review the results after 30 days and adjust the system based on community activity and feedback.

Thank you for understanding.

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Hi, I’m looking for a genuine platonic friend. Not a relationship, not a situationship — just someone I can talk to, play games with, and maybe hang out with someday if we vibe.

Lately, I’ve been feeling like a floater friend. I have people around me, but sometimes I still feel left out or not really chosen. I don’t want pity, I just want to meet someone who understands what it feels like to care too much and still feel alone.

About me: I can be shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m talkative, caring, and supportive. I like gaming, casual kwentuhan, deep talks, memes, random rants, and sharing small life updates.

Kahit isang genuine friend lang, okay na ako. I don’t mind sweet or caring friendships, as long as it’s healthy and purely platonic. I’m just looking for a real friendship where both people choose each other.