26F, hoped I'd have a life partner by now. I pretend to my friends that im happy I'm single but I'm not. I'm very lonely and my friends are all engaged or married and I feel like im missing out.
My first day off from work in about 8-9 days, extremely burnt out and tired
Whatever kind of day you're having, I hope things get a little better for you. Sometimes we all need a little kindness, encouragement, or simply a reminder that we're not alone.
So here's a big virtual hug for anyone who needs one today. 🤗🫂
Take care of yourself and keep smiling! 🌸
Good Morning F40 !
If anyone is from virar female I'm looking for cuddle partner would be paid one 10k
Hey everyone! I’m 18m and I’ve been on here quite a few times, often to ask for hugs but at the same time offer them to others in the same post.
I’m having something of a panic attack at the moment due to fear of the future and of the lack of friends and general social interaction I have due to having no friends.
And due to both medical and mental reasons I haven’t been in education until now, which is now remote due to needing to separate studying with my social problems.
I feel like I’m falling so far behind in life, that everyone will think I’m lazy, or feel bad for me, or maybe even think I’m faking it.
I just want to express my thoughts on here, there’s no worries about me, I’ve got professional help available but this subreddit has turned out to be a wonderful way to quickly get stuff off of my mind and to get reinforcing messages.
I don’t expect anything from anyone, I don’t expect any solutions or answers to my situation.
Maybe just some hugs and kind words, maybe a dm if someone feels like they wanna chat and maybe be friends
About to head to sleep now since it’s past midnight and I feel tired after expressing my feelings. Goodnight everyone! 🙂
Hugs and cuddles for everyone who feels bad, needs a hug in any way or just wants someone close! ❤️
I’m back again… my overthinking brain hurts…
So after that brutal depression and leaving school I lost a part of me and my life
I was the quiet person in school, no friends and good notes, I was good in anything I did, my parents were not proud but not disappointed either, then after a depression I started with several anxiety and panic attacks
Since that I feel like I'm not alive, I don't enjoy life and my parents makes me feel like the worst looser and useless person in the world
I can't talk without getting drama and I see nobody really cares unless they see me collapsing in that moment, I live surviving something I shouldn't and I'm not going anywhere, the only thing that keeps me alive is the hope of having a better future
I need an hug and a shoulder to cry...
If you feel bad too I send you an hug too and if you need someone to share pain I'm here for you, I may not be ok but I don't want someone dealing alone with life, you matter, you're not alone♡
I feel like the loneliness and depression is starting to get to me. I've been alone for over a year and my social battery is very low, I have few friends who I hang with but very rarely. During nights when there are no distractions I often cry. I also suffer from severe OCD which makes everything worse. I don't even recognize myself anymore. My thoughts have come to a point that someday I'll probably off myself. I've been through so much and I feel like I deserve a way better life than this.
(28 F) idk why I'm just feelin like I really need some affection right now.. 😔 I'm going through something and it's really stressful, plus my time of the month is coming in a few days, I get especially teary and needy around this time and I also feel so lonely 😞I'm just sad and stressed out, with no one safe to hug around me
Can’t be fussed to go into too much detail right now
Today is just one of those days I see no hope, no exit to anything I'm going through and I'm honestly just guessing the days I'm not experiencing this sensation is just me trying to hide the obvious.
I'm trying my best, I'm doing whatever I can to be the best version of me but it's never enough. It's draining myself more and more each day. It takes the world to just function. And I've completely lost the strength needed to even fight against it.
Would really appreciate some hugs tbh. It's getting rough.
Thanks in advance for reading.
After dating and semi cohabitating for a year or so a pulmonologist tells her she has 5 years to live and there wasnt anything that could be done for her condition. She didnt want to drag me through her suffering so she explained that she was breaking up with me. Well, i said bullshyt! What kinda man lets a woman he loves go through that alone. I told her, youll need help and thatll be me. First thing we will fore your pulmonologist and get someone a bit more proactive. Never thought i would marry again after my 2nd ended. But afterr we were together 4 years and living together for 3 of them i asked her to marry me. From the beginning ive been fighting for her. The pulmonologists, cardiologists, asthma specialists, transplant teams. On and on. All the medication for pain, to help breathe, the dialate airways and blood vessels, the antidepressants but it kept getting worse. Then a doctor finally told the truth about how she could recover a significant portion of her pulmonary function by exercising her diagram. So sje has been getting more active. She weened herself off of a whole lot of medication but stopped rye antidepressanta cold turkey for 2 months. I dont think her body chemiztry had time to stabilize. She would cry profusely and say nothing is wrong im just sad and need to cry, ive always been like this. You need to understand this woman is my best friend. She is the live of my life! She is my soulmate and human credential. I love... i adore her so much! So now she is back on xanax but she is like a different person. She twists people words to make it out like they said something other than what they said. When i talk about potential ill effects of anti depressant taken in excessive doses she act like i insulted her character. But im just saying that is a bad drug. Well, three days ago she woke up early and woke me by screaming in my face later i learned she was screaming, "You lost me!" Over and over but like a maniac. Well, i was comong off a 26 hour work shift and jad only 3 hours of aleep when all this yelling started. She left the bedroom amd stopped yelling. I had to pee then i went back to bed. When i woke she was gone. I texted her and she informed me that she was leaving me. She wants a divorce. I am crushed. I have been in shock for 2 days prior to today and today it began to hit, how alone i am. And when i speak to her its like she is a completely different person. She lies now. She never lied to me before. I dont know what to do. My lover, my heart, my soul, my friend, my partner... its as if she died and someone else is walking around in her body. Please yall. This Texas hill country homeboy needs hugs and wisdom and comfort. I completely broke down earlier today. Ive never cried like rhat before. I have never hurt like this before. Ive never loved anyone this much. I feel like im fyckin dying. Somebody straighten me out please.
I want hugs and cuddles :(
EDIT: Welp, this post made me realise that people only care when it's cute and sweet. Once you have a problem, everyone disappears..
34M Need hugs and a true friendship with whom I can chat daily... About my daily life work.. struggle etc..
Honestly I just need someone to talk to my mental state isn't doing to good right now and idk what to do...