r/hug

I saw a post where a guy was asking a relationship advice and i posted my opinion too. Later, we connected on message and i asked him a question regarding the post and he said because "i can't see my girl sad so i wished to do that instead..." and i was like wow such a green flag can't see his girl sad, and i wish i also had a bf like him and stuff running in my mind.

So the convo ended and he started asking questions and we had good discussion out of the box, more about spiritual and life, he was 5 years elder than me (and fyi i am 23) later after discussion he said i love u... i was shooked, i was like bro then he said i like ur thoughts so i said it in that way (ughh) i was like ohkay.

Then.... this wasn't the end he started saying me baby babe and said u are a kiddo 😏 huh and i was like dude wait a sec... u have a gf ( i reminded him) u are flirting and i can't continue this knowing u are in relationship i steped back.

Later, he texted it's complicated u don't know it and stuff, she don't even love me, it'slong distance too.... u have ruined my mood... and i was like what's the point of ur relationship? And why are u thinking and posting syuff about it?

His post was about his gf, later we also discussed about it and he loves her, can't see her sad still flirting with others ?

Ya, I need a hug...

Heavy night tonight. Feeling unseen, unloved. No one i can turn to for a hug. Why can't I calm myself down myself..

My partner(F) and (M)I (for 5 years) have broken up for 1 month and 1 week already, she seems to be moving on and I am stuck here doing everything that I can to prove that I can be better and change for her.

I am not a perfect partner, I have lapses and I tend to forget things so much, that's why I created a note about her, and try my very best to be better every time. I still love her very very very much but I want to be better and show that I have improved too. I can't move on and I probably wouldn't, because I always feel like she's always my last destination, she's my endgame.

I need hugs, my thoughts are eating me up and I can't bear to think that she hates me or doesn't love me anymore. I also can barely move and have any motivation to do anything, even play or watch.

I really need a hug right now:( just broke up with my boyfriend and it was a very peaceful breakup. BUT he wants nothing to do with me anymore. he deleted me from all socials, left all group chats with me in them, deleted all his messages. poof gone. it's like he never even existed:/ having a really hard time coping with this now and wish someone could just hold me while I cry

edit: for the love of god dont send me messages trying to get into my pants. i just wanted a little comforting. was very sad yesterday.

It all started with me deleting our pictures of my Instagram (I deleted pictures I had with everyone cause I wanted to change my account) and she said I was embarrassed of her. Then she got pissed I didn't go to some party 2 years ago and then our sleepover (I suddenly got invited to fencing camps as I am an athlete and if I get invited I have to go) then that I jokingly called her a bitch a year ago (she laughed about it then got pissed in the texts and I apologized a milion times after) then that I looked at her weirdly and was hiding my phone (it has never happened...) and that I told her to switch insta accounts because she was beefing with some idiots and they were all posting stories of them saying shit about eachother, I told her that so that she stops engaging with it any further. I don't know what to do now can someone please comfort me

Time shall pass,m😊

I just can't take it anymore I hate my mother my emotions my house my life I can't take it anymore. I have nobody who could hug me talk to me normally I hate my life so much. I wish to be hugged just to be safe and loved normally. What can I do? My body hurts and my head. I feel alone even I have some people around me. I feel so lonely omg I want this feeling to end and get better I want to start over

My wedding is next Saturday, and I’m having such a hard time. My dad is 64, diabetic, and he’s in the hospital with pneumonia. The last time he had pneumonia, he ended up on life support, so I’m terrified.

All I want is for my dad to be there on my wedding day and to walk me down the aisle. I’m trying to stay hopeful, but I’m so scared and overwhelmed. I keep thinking about the worst-case scenario, and my heart just hurts.

I know no one can tell me what’s going to happen. I just really need a hug right now. Thank you for listening. ❤️

M45 here

All you who sleep alone tonight - I send you my hugs and this beautiful poem!

All you who sleep tonight
Far from the ones you love,
No hands to left or right,
And emptiness above –

Know that you aren’t alone.
The whole world shares your tears,
Some for two nights or one,
And some for all their years.

© 1992, Vikram Seth

Life isn't fair, it never will be. And the world won't treat you better just because you're a good person.

You wake up every day and do your best, but how do you know when your best is enough? Enough for yourself. Enough for the people you care about.

Maybe the answer is to stop chasing society's definition of success and simply live the way that feels right to you. But does that lead to peace, or does it eventually become isolation? Maybe it's not about wanting to be alone, but becoming comfortable enough with your own company that loneliness no longer defines you.

Family will always be family. Friends come and go, some stay, some don't. It feels like everyone is living in their own little bubble, carrying invisible battles while trying to get through another day. Between work, responsibilities, and the constant routine, it's easy to drift apart, even from people we care about.

It makes me wonder, when everyone is overwhelmed, exhausted, and just trying to survive, do we still have enough left to reach out, make new connections, or simply help and be there for someone else?

I never thought being a parent would be this hard.my kid has been having bad dreams for the past few weeks,I can't sleep well,everytime I try she'd be screaming for daddy at 2am in the morning,I'm a single dad with a daughter and I try my very best to make sure that she is happy.

I have been going to a therapist lately but that bit*h would be telling to be strong like I'm some kind of a Marvel super hero.please pass me some advise on how I can deal with this🙏

My mom depresses me alot

She says

I m illl just bcs of u

I don't know wht did i done so that she is ill

Im working at home like a servent (ya i m a bit of slow and lazzy in work)

Then i go for coaching then come back and rest for 2 hrs.

Wht did i do

I feel like i m totally broken

I have nothing

Just false hopes that one day I'll earn and then

May be my mom loves me

Or atleast cares me 😭😭😭😭😭🙏

Im pretty depressed tonight and could use a hug

Really need a hug

People always say, "Be the best version of yourself." "Dream big."

But dreams without opportunities and resources often remain only dreams. The truth is, we don't all begin at the same starting line. Some are born with advantages, while others spend their lives just trying to catch up. Patience and perseverance matter, but they aren't magic. Sometimes hard work opens doors. Sometimes it doesn't. Reality is far more complicated than motivational quotes would have us believe.

I'm 26, and life has already taught me so much. Maybe I'm just becoming more aware of how complicated adulthood really is. I've learned to appreciate solitude, but I've also realized there's a fine line between enjoying your own company and quietly drifting away from the world.

So here's to anyone reading this. I hope you're still finding time for a cup of coffee, or maybe a glass of wine. I hope, despite everything, you're holding on to that tiny drop of hope that keeps you moving forward.

How has life been treating you lately?