u/Megabot0

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In desperate need of hugs to keep the bad thoughts away

Hey everyone! I’m 18m and I’ve been on here quite a few times, often to ask for hugs but at the same time offer them to others in the same post.

I’m having something of a panic attack at the moment due to fear of the future and of the lack of friends and general social interaction I have due to having no friends.

And due to both medical and mental reasons I haven’t been in education until now, which is now remote due to needing to separate studying with my social problems.

I feel like I’m falling so far behind in life, that everyone will think I’m lazy, or feel bad for me, or maybe even think I’m faking it.

I just want to express my thoughts on here, there’s no worries about me, I’ve got professional help available but this subreddit has turned out to be a wonderful way to quickly get stuff off of my mind and to get reinforcing messages.

I don’t expect anything from anyone, I don’t expect any solutions or answers to my situation.

Maybe just some hugs and kind words, maybe a dm if someone feels like they wanna chat and maybe be friends

About to head to sleep now since it’s past midnight and I feel tired after expressing my feelings. Goodnight everyone! 🙂

Hugs and cuddles for everyone who feels bad, needs a hug in any way or just wants someone close! ❤️

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u/Megabot0 — 1 day ago
▲ 10 r/hug

Hello everyone! I’m in serious need of a hug

Im 18 and I am depressed and suicidal at times (albeit I’m on the road to recovery and feel this bad much less often)

I’d just like some friendly hugs or messages to help me feel better in this moment when I’m feeling extra down, to see how good people can be and maybe give me a warm fuzzy feeling inside of hope.

I’m not really asking for help or advice, neither am I expecting someone to fix this for me. But I’ve been on here before, and somehow a short message can do a lot, whether it be advice, long distance hugs, offers of friendship or even words of encouragement and support.

I hope that everyone out there is doing well, that you have long and happy lives and that all of you never have to feel alone in your suffering, because all of us suffer, some of us more than others, maybe we are far away, but you aren’t alone and maybe you can find some comfort in that

Hugs for you all 🫂 🫂 🫂

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u/Megabot0 — 18 days ago
▲ 6 r/hug

Need a hug to maybe help my suicidal thoughts

Im 17 and depressed and right now I’m really contemplating ending it all.

I do have professional help, but it can’t help me in the moment.

I just feel so shit

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u/Megabot0 — 2 months ago
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18M needs hugs and love to feel better after my ex tried contacting me

If you’re wondering, we ended the relationship amicably on equal terms as we both realised that it was hurting us both to be together even if we loved each other, we agreed to block each other and go no contact, which in and of itself was extremely difficult, at least for me.

Now this was my first and only relationship, and this breakup was almost a year ago now, but when she tried reaching out all the emotions, bad and good came crashing back, but the good ones weren’t the same and basically all I felt was scared and a knot in my stomach. I blocked her when she tried reaching out, as that was what we agreed on, and I couldn’t allow myself to hurt her more, or to hurt myself and go so low as I’ve been not so long ago (suicidal).

Now the knot in my stomach hasn’t disappeared, instead it only comes when I am about to sleep, my thoughts wandering to her and thinking about what she could have wanted, and if I did the right thing. It’s just a lot to think about, and one of my most difficult things is to deal with emotions.

It feels a bit better writing it all out, but I still feel shitty for blocking her instantly (she asked to talk in a text, but not what about) and I would’ve felt shit if I did answer her/call with her. It feels like she inadvertently hurt me no matter what, even if it isn’t her intention or fault. Just thinking of her hurts now, i don’t understand how my love for her turned into this…

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u/Megabot0 — 3 months ago
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What’s fucking wrong with me?

Im suicidal at 17 and I literally don’t know why, I have a great life and amazing help and support and I’m suicidal over just not having friends, it’s so stupid and I feels so shitty for feeling shit

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u/Megabot0 — 3 months ago
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[17M/EU] Looking for long-term gaming buddies and chill chats

Hey everyone! I’m turning 18 this summer and realized my friend circle is a bit quiet lately. I’m looking for some people to talk to regularly or jump into some games with!

I play a bit of everything, including **Minecraft, Helldivers 2, Lethal Company, and Roblox.** I’m also down for **PEAK** or basically anything else if the vibes are right. If you aren't into gaming, I’m still down to just chat—I love cooking, baking, and I play the guitar, so we can talk about music or swap recipes!

I’m based in Sweden, so being in a similar timezone is a plus. Hope you’re all having a great day! ❤️

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u/Megabot0 — 3 months ago
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I just want love from someone who isn’t my close family. I feel so lonely and like I shouldn’t even try anymore. I long to be held by someone, and have someone to be there for and to be there for me. I know it’s stupid, but I just need a real hug, to know that someone cares about me. Not that this subreddit is the same as a real hug, but it’s the best I can get and deserve

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u/Megabot0 — 4 months ago