u/Key_Awareness2243

Looking for an Austin or local law practice to represent us. We live in Georgetown/Williamson county. We had a HOA fine of $150 dollars that we did not find out about until it reached a substantial fee. We are paperless with the HOA so never saw it. We contacted the HOA attorney offering to resolve and settle which was one of their suggested solutions. Contacted and would receive a response that they forwarded our offer and are waiting for the boards response. Over and over.
Today we were served that we have 20 days and are being sued for the maximum allowable by law $250,000. They are going to proceed with foreclosure. I have called 3 law practices in Austin that deal in Real estate and HOA law. All 3 said they will get back to us. None of them sounded interested.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

First time posting. Please be supportive and your advice is appreciated. Daughter with borderline personality disorder, not in therapy.

Our adult daughter has been living with us for the past 2 years. She is currently separated from her husband who lives abroad. He is not supportive financially. She has 3 kids, (5, 14, 17). We have cared for the two oldest off and on for most of their lives. They have been living with us for 3 years. We have been financially assisting her since she had the kids. We wanted to ensure they would not be homeless (at one point she was angry with us and took the older 2 and lived on the street until we found them and brought the kids home). We also financially supported them so their needs were met since she was living in poverty while living abroad. We didn’t want the grandchildren to go hungry and had essentials and experiences.

Today is the final talk. She won’t get a higher paying job. She makes $15 hr. She has NOTHING saved.

We have been meeting about finances, budget, low income housing for the past 6 months. We gave her a deadline that she must move out or pay rent.

How would you open this talk? How would you word the finality of the fuxing free loading. We have to do it without exploding because she will take off with the 5 year old and couch surf until homelessness. Thoughts?