type my ex-boyfriend 🔥🔥🔥
he is very quiet and reserved when you first meet him, but around his established friends he is loud and boisterous and can easily be the life of the party. he prefers staying around the familiar, once he starts dating you he finds quick comfort in hanging out with your friends and, despite urging him to branch out, he does not make any effort to make friends of his own.
as a boyfriend, he is extremely present and loves committing acts of service to prove himself. we are both equally clingy and spend every moment together, melding into each other. he is very funny, charming, and is very touchy. his main hobbies are drinking… and watching sports. he can easily play the role of both the dominant and submissive one in the relationship (but he wants to be more submissive than you let him be). he truly loves you the entire way through and constantly talks about the future, indulging in a more “mature” relationship despite being young (“i only date to marry”).
he is not very emotionally intelligent. around your friends he sometimes embarrasses you, saying things that you thought he would intuitively know would not go over well with them. he makes people mad a lot with his strong, vocal, unpopular beliefs. he doesn’t care when they get mad at him for it but you sometimes force him to apologize. he also lacks emotional intelligence within the relationship. he openly tells you that he has been thinking about his ex, does not understand why you get mad when he suggests going on a trip days following the passing of your grandfather, and openly talks about how his parents have been upset with you lately.
he states that he used to just “get sad” a lot, alluding to the fact he might have been depressed in the past. when you’re dating he has no problems talking about his feelings and is very emotionally expressive in almost all aspects. he gets defensive easily and is very stubborn. he is also a very very jealous individual, urging you to tell him about your past lovers in detail and then moping and becoming angry/sad after you do. he doesn’t like you going out without him because he fears you getting male attention.
after you end things with him he remains distant despite being very hurt and depressed, which you find out later. he becomes hypocritical in a way you hadn’t noticed him being while together. he had always said he would never start seeing you again if the relationship ended, but he makes a move and you start hooking up again while never making it official. also, despite having said he hates one night stands and could not respect someone who sleeps around, he starts after the breakup. he gets very mad the day he finds out you did the same thing and berates you for it, but still sleeps with you again that same night after and continues to see you.
he never has the guts to end things, even when things get really bad for the both of you and despite his “pride” that he speaks about so often. he lets you make the decisions and when you finally end it for good, he doesn’t fight it or plead, just like he didn’t when you ended it originally. you end on good terms and wishing each other well.
⭐️i tried to include as much as i could think to remember in this description, sorry if it’s written in a way that’s hard to read 😭 pls feel free ask any clarifying questions as well!! i have an idea on his type but i would love to get more opinions on this