u/Key_Hyena2183

I still consider myself to be pretty new to spirituality but I’ve always found myself drawn to trees. I’ve never truly escaped the pull of them. I’m camping currently for the first time this year in a new campground and as I was going to bed I was thinking about the tree near my head. I then let my mind wander about all the travel plans I have coming up and I heard a deep voice in my head say “I’ll stay here in the village.” I have a feminine voice and have never heard this voice before but I thought it was funny. The tree heard me and made a joke. This got me excited and unfortunately I wasn’t able to calm myself to have further conversation but what a fun experience. I’m curious to hear about similar experiences, has this ever happened to you?

My boyfriend (M23) and I (F22) have been together for 2.5 years. We live together. We’ve talked about marriage and getting engaged this year. We both travel for work, he works short term (typically 2-8 weeks) jobs all over the country and I work one seasonal job that takes me 2 hours away from our home town for 6 months out of the year. This makes us kinda long distance. We visit each other when possible but unfortunately when I’m away it’s not very often.

Today I was on a bike ride with my friend (M23) and my boyfriend told me that I’m not allowed to hang out with other men alone. I understand that he may just feel a little insecure because of the distance but this really threw me off because my boyfriend knows my friend and we all traveled out of country together.

He insists it’s a boundary that he’s setting but it feels like controlling behavior. I love him and I planned on marrying him but he said that if I hang out with a male friend alone again we’re done. I told him I need time to think about this and he said I have until tonight. What do I do in this situation? I truly didn’t think hanging out with my friend would lead to the end of my relationship…

TLDR
My LD boyfriend got upset after I went on a bike ride with another male mutual friend. He said I’m not allowed to hang out with another male friend alone again and if I don’t agree to that by tonight he’s going to break up with me.