u/KiiittyKatNinja

Before:

For over 21 years, trichotillomania controlled so much of my life. It started when I was just 12 years old, and as the years went on, I experienced periods where it became almost impossible to manage.

It affected every part of my life—even school. By sixth grade, I had reached a point where I didn’t even want to go to school anymore because I was so embarrassed and ashamed of my hair. I pushed myself to finish that school year, but by seventh grade I switched to homeschooling and stayed there until I graduated with a little dual enrollment by my senior year, as I had finally started wearing wigs and extensions. I didn’t have any confidence yet, however. Looking back, it’s heartbreaking to think about how much this disorder stole from my childhood.

The worst came after one of the most traumatic experiences of my life—losing my last boyfriend after he lost his battle with depression. That grief and entire experience left me with PTSD, and my hair pulling became worse than it had ever been.

I spent years feeling embarrassed, hiding my hair, avoiding certain situations, and wondering if I’d ever feel confident again.

After:
Wigs truly changed my life.

The biggest difference isn’t just how they look—it’s what they do for me mentally. When I’m wearing a wig, I don’t pull my hair. I physically can’t & it’s like my brain finally gets a break from the constant urge.

For the first time in a very long time, I am FINALLY starting to feel confident leaving the house, taking photos, filming videos, and simply being myself without constantly worrying about my hair. That took me almost 21 years.

This month I’ll be 33, and after more than two decades of living with trichotillomania, I can honestly say wigs have given me something I never thought I’d have again: confidence, freedom, and hope.

If you’re struggling with trichotillomania or hair loss for any reason, I want you to know you’re not alone. There is hope, and you deserve to feel beautiful and confident, too. 

P.S. I didn’t edit my photos whatsoever, so I’m sorry for the sweat! It is HAWT in FL right now! Your own personal sauna when you step outside 😅

Wig: https://shop.luvmehair.com/products/naturemax-180-density-ash-blonde-silky-straight-glueless-ear-to-ear-13x4-hd-lace-fr

Hi! I ordered from Hairvivi again! I ordered a 20” Chanel in honey 🍯 & TWO Madison’s in honey 🍯 ( I know I know but I need to rotate my wigs and she’s just the exact blonde I waaant!) I ordered 1 in 18” ($777) & 1 in 20” ($850) so that I can tell which is which LOL 😂

Anyways, if you have the new Madison in any length, can you PRETTY PLEASE share photos of it on you or off of you & in different light settings? I’m just so excited for them to arrive, however, it likely won’t be until end of next week to deliver! I’m thrilled about how light of a blonde she is with that creamy vanilla look! I’ve seen her in different lighting and it’s throwing me off so I just would love to see some more photos & opinions on the hair quality as well. Is it dry? Does it feel damaged? After shading how is she? All my Hairvivi wigs air dry straight and smooth, maybe a LITTLE frizz easily tamed. This is my first time ordering a blondie from Hairvivi, believe it or not. I’ve always purchased the Rylee & Chanel over and over haha!

Thanks tons! xoxo 😘

😌💇🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️ we’re going to a little concert tonight, and I think this will feel comfortable & look great! Thoughts?

I’ve been wearing wigs for roughly 20 years since I was 12 and I’m 32 now- anyways, I randomly picked this up recently. It’s technically a brow and edge gel, but I’ve been using it to smooth down those little flyaways around my wig hairline and create a much cleaner, more polished look.

The comb applicator makes it super easy to apply exactly where I want it without getting gel everywhere, and it doesn’t leave my hairline looking stiff or crunchy. Honestly, it’s become one of those products I reach for every single install.

Anyone else using this or something similar for their wigs? I’ve tried a couple and this one is BOMB. 

Ahhh my ash blonde and platinum blonde dreams combined into one! I can’t believe I have blonde hair without even a cap underneath! Just scar tape on the part & a nude silicone wig band!

Wig info: Ash Blonde unit linked below!

https://shop.luvmehair.com/products/naturemax-180-density-ash-blonde-silky-straight-glueless-ear-to-ear-13x4-hd-lace-front-wig-pre-cut-lace-flexi-fit-drawstring-cap?variant=42244021780570

Hi! So, I finally made up my mind on what wigs I’m ordering for the time being! My next purchase will be through Lox by Lori, because her hairlines and hair quality are even better than Hairvivi’s, but it does take some time for a custom order, which I need unfortunately as I wear a size large cap. SO, I ended up ordering a Hairvivi Madison, their new level 10 blondie at 20” from the nape & a China Best Wig that I added a photo of here after Madison if you scroll to the next. She’s a light/bright blondie as well with dimension, just a bit different! I can’t wait for both and don’t have to for too long! Madison should ship out within 5 business days, and the China Best Wig will ship out in 3-4 weeks max. I’m very happy with my choices!

Does anyone here have the Madison yet that can share some photos themselves of the color they received? Are you happy with it? I’ve been told it’s a cool vanilla blonde/platinum & I’m just thrilled! Thanks for listening to me yap!

P.S. I have been ordering from Hairvivi for over 2 years now without a single issue that couldn’t be resolved with them. I know some people hate them, and some people love them. I’ve owned probably 20-30 of their wigs so far lol and I certainly love them! They always air dry beautifully silky smooth for me with the products I use as well.

Thanks! 🥰☀️✨

From black to blonde in seconds! I finally have my Targaryen hair dreams fulfilled (and yesss, I mean that my hair is BLACK underneath…and it doesn’t even show without a wig cap!) plus this is straight out of the box!

Hi everyone! 🤍

I’ve been wearing wigs for about 17 years, so I’m definitely not new to the wig world, but I’m finally taking the plunge and ordering my first Freedom Couture lace front! I’m custom ordering the Clair style, and I’m beyond excited.

For the last 2 years, I’ve exclusively worn Hairvivi and honestly have had a great experience with them. They’ve been my go-to, but after building a little collection, I thought it was time to treat myself and try something that’s considered an even more luxury, high-end piece.

I’m ordering Clair in 20” measured from the nape, which should work out to around 26” from the crown. Since I’ve been wearing wigs for so long, I’m pretty picky when it comes to realism, especially the hairline, lace, density, and how the hair holds up over time.

I’d absolutely love to hear from anyone who owns a Freedom Couture lace front, especially the Clair style! If you’re willing, I’d be so grateful if you shared! :)

I’ve done a ton of research, but I always trust real-life experiences from fellow wig wearers the most. Thank you so much to anyone who shares their thoughts and photos. I can’t wait to join the Freedom Couture family! 🫶🏻✨

I responded in better words telling them, no absolutely not, or in better words I hope lol. I ordered their brand new Madison in 22” and paid $932! They're trying to justify making it 19” from the nape. I’ve never had a bad experience with them, this is the first time in two years & I’m livid. I told them if they can’t make it 22” then they need to refund me the price difference for losing 3”. Like, go ahead and improve your design but cut it from 25” so it ends up being 22” like I ordered. Fuming here. Has anyone experienced this recently or ordered recently and was NOT told this that can vouche for me to them?

I responded in better words telling them, no absolutely not, that I won’t ”accept that”. I ordered their brand new Madison in 22” and paid $932! They're trying to justify making it 19” from the nape. I’ve never had a bad experience with them, this is the first time in two years & I’m livid. I told them if they can’t make it 22” then they need to refund me the price difference for losing 3”. Like, go ahead and improve your design but cut it from 25” so it ends up being 22” like I ordered. Fuming here. Has anyone experienced this recently or ordered recently and was NOT told this that can vouche for me to them?

I know wigs are such a personal preference, but I honestly keep coming back to Hairvivi because they consistently make my life easier.

I’ve actually been wearing Hairvivi wigs for about 2 years now, and I currently own 7 of their wigs, so I’ve had plenty of opportunities to compare them to other brands over time.

*second photo is out of the box so poofy and not hot combed yet haha*

The biggest thing for me is the hairline. Every wig I’ve gotten has been beautifully pre-plucked right out of the box, so I don’t have to spend hours trying to make it look realistic. The knots are also so well bleached that I genuinely can’t see them once the wig is on. There isn’t that obvious “wiggy” look that I’ve struggled with from other brands.

My favorite feature, though, is the fake scalp. I have very dark brown hair underneath, so getting a natural-looking part can be challenging. The fake scalp has been a total game changer for me. I also add scar tape underneath the part, and together they create such a realistic scalp illusion that it honestly amazes me every time I put one on.

As someone who isn’t a professional wig stylist and doesn’t want to spend hours customizing every unit, I really appreciate being able to take a wig out of the box and have it look natural with minimal effort.

For reference, I’m reviewing the Rylee in 22” with Honey Lace. It’s gorgeous and has all of the features I’ve come to expect from Hairvivi.

I’ve tried quite a few brands over the years, and Hairvivi is one of the few that consistently delivers a realistic hairline, invisible knots, and an incredibly believable scalp appearance.

That said, my next order will actually be from China Best Wig. Their wigs appear to be constructed very similarly to Hairvivi’s, but their pricing is significantly lower, especially on blondes. The three wigs I picked out came to about $1,300 total, and I’m just waiting on a refund to hit before placing my order. I’m honestly so excited because they have a huge selection, especially for blondes.

I also found out who the supplier for Hairvivi is and will order from them directly next, and no I cannot share that information.

One frustration I’ve had with Hairvivi is that I need a large cap with Honey Lace, and unfortunately that’s not an option on many of their styles. I even wanted to order a blonde custom unit and wasn’t able to because of those sizing/lace limitations, which was disappointing.

Overall though, Hairvivi has made wearing wigs so much less stressful for me over the last two years, and I just wanted to share some love for a brand that’s worked really well for me.

If anyone has questions about the Rylee, Honey Lace, fake scalp, or my experience owning 7 Hairvivi wigs, feel free to ask!

Hi! So like the title says & I really really would appreciate photos if you can and you can even blur out your face :) thanks guys! I’m trying to venture out from just Hairvivi.

I just wanted to share my experience because I genuinely love Hairvivi wigs and they’ve honestly become my comfort brand at this point 😭

I’ve been rotating mainly the Chanel and Rylee for about 2 years now, and I currently only buy from Hairvivi because for the quality, they’re not outrageously expensive compared to a lot of other brands. I feel super comfortable in them and know exactly what to expect.

I’ve only ever had to return/exchange ONE wig, and it was because IMO it looked like there was a tiny bald spot near the hairline. The exchange process was easy. They do initially offer partial money back first if you mention a return/exchange, but after that they sent me a shipping label and I mailed it back. I think the return shipping fee was around $15.

I actually just bought FOUR new Hairvivi wigs to start a fresh rotation and I’m planning to sell my older used ones 😂 I’m clearly loyal at this point.

I’ve mostly stuck to the Chanel and Rylee because I know they work for me, but I REALLY want to branch out and try the Brooklyn next. Someone posted a review of the Brooklyn in the Wigs sub recently and I was SO grateful because it’s literally the exact blonde shade I’ve been wanting. Unfortunately for the length I want it’ll probably cost me close to $1k 🥲 so I’m telling myself it’ll be my July birthday present lol.

I also wanted to share my wig care routine because I’ve learned SO much from this subreddit over time:

• I ONLY use sulfate-free shampoo & conditioner. Usually Moroccan Oil or Olaplex (mostly Olaplex lately because it smells amazing).

• I always do a hair mask every wash. Right now I use Amika Hydro Rush, but I’ve heard Soulfood is amazing too. I leave it on for 20–30 mins.

IMPORTANT: only apply conditioner/masks from mid-length down to the ends — NEVER on the knots, roots, or lace. It can loosen knots and increase shedding.

• If I’m doing a mask or silicone treatment, I rinse shampoo/conditioner with warm water first, then rinse the mask/treatment with cold water.

• When the wig is damp (not soaking wet), I use Awapuhi Styling Treatment Oil Ultra Light. BEST serum ever IMO. Makes the hair silky and smells incredible.

• After everything is fully dry, I use Walker Tape Top-Loc knot sealer underneath the cap. For Hairvivi wigs specifically, I press the fake scalp against the lace so the sealant reaches the roots better.

• To help prevent lace fraying, I use Aleene’s Stop Fraying around the lace edges. Just a thin layer and let it dry.

• I only wash every 10–15 wears or around every 6 weeks.

• Every 3–4 washes, instead of a mask, I do a silicone treatment using John Korea Haircoat. Apparently it’s used a LOT in China on wigs and honestly… it makes SUCH a difference but, it can only be found in eBay & it starts at $30. I think that’ll cover maybe 2 wigs for me so I’ll def buy more because I have 4 new ones but also remember that I’ll only do it every 3-4 washes…thinking as I type but hey, buy as much as you think would work for you haha I just wanted to test it out first and it’s literally liquid gold to me. I’ll out a photo of it in the comments.

ALSO: AIR DRY YOUR WIGS!!! Unless you’re doing the silicone treatment — then you actually DO want to blow dry during that process specifically. Otherwise, always air dry. I literally put mine outside on a mannequin head for under an hour here in Florida and it’s almost fully dry 😂

Also, I literally joined Reddit to be able to participate 😊 I had to wait a whole month before I could finally make a post/comment lol. But honestly I’m really glad I joined because I’ve learned SO much from people in this sub and the wigs sub. Pretty much all my wig care techniques besides sulfate-free shampoo/conditioner came from you guys, and now I can finally comment and participate too! 💕

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No filter to soften my face on this one :)

Chanel 28” from crown, 20” from nape, honey lace, medium cap

Rylee, 30” from scalp, 22” from nape, honey lace, medium cap,$781

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Chanel

Hi everyone! I could really use some help leveling up my desk setup.

I work from home, so I spend a lot of time at my desk, and right now it’s… functional, but not exactly inspiring. I start a new job next Monday, May 4th. I want to make it more aesthetically pleasing—something that feels calm, clean, maybe even a little luxe—but I still need it to be super practical for everyday use.

I’m working with a pretty standard desk setup (monitor, keyboard, random papers, the usual chaos), and I feel like no matter how I organize it, it just doesn’t look put together.

Does anyone have tips, product suggestions, or even photos of your own setups for inspiration? I’m especially interested in:

- Simple organization ideas that don’t look cluttered

- Ways to hide cords without it being a whole project

- Small touches that make a space feel more “elevated”

- Storage that actually looks good

I’d love something that feels cozy and pretty but still makes it easy to stay productive.

Thank you in advance- I need all the help I can get 😅