u/Kitchen-Bad5234

It’s been a few months since I was on Reddit and the influx of posts from the youth on @lesbianactually has completely washed the sub of interesting posts. I don’t understand half the lingo and most of it is now memes and long stories about bad relationships that they don’t understand. “She doesn’t support me and care about our relationship— but I love her, should I just keep staying in this?” girl what.

So I’m really glad I found this sub!

It’s been a few years since I’ve had a gf and after dating a work crush (we work at the mall together but different stores) we made things official! I’ve never been in a relationship with another lesbian before and honestly didn’t realize how much I needed to be seen! We’ve both dated and been in relationships with women that haven’t de-centered men and/or want us to become men in a weird way. So it feels very secure and eye-opening to be with a partner that fully understands your experiences. We see each other daily at work but only get one day a week together so things have felt very balanced and mature. I’m excited for what’s in store, for getting to know her more and establishing a good relationship together.

I’d love to get some ideas for romantic things that you guys like to do with your partner