Confused over why I miss him... am I too old for this? 😥🤷‍♀️

This is probably a stupid question but it's helps to get some impartial feedback sometimes. My partner, 39M and me 41F are together 10 months and moved in together after 5 months. Over the past few weeks he's starting to be quite distant, lost his job around the time I got a new one and has been very unmotivated to do anything.

Last Wednesday we had an argument and he left the house, he told me he'd be back the next day but I haven't been able to contact him since. His mother told me he is back in his family home and today he finally made contact to ask can he collect his stuff tomorrow. He won't make any comments on why he isn't coming home and some people have mentioned to me that he has an addiction he's been covering.

Just wondering if you all think this is worth fighting for. I've been in 3 serious relationships and thought this was the last one, seriously thought we'd marry. I love him but his lack of contact is confusing. I think I know walking away is best but I'd really love to be back with him now, watching a movie and laughing together.

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u/Klutzy-Echidna-4982 — 4 days ago

Should I try again. Is it my fault?

This is probably a stupid question but it's helps to get some impartial feedback sometimes. My partner, 39M and me 41F are together 10 months and moved in together after 5 months. Over the past few weeks he's starting to be quite distant, lost his job around the time I got a new one and has been very unmotivated to do anything.

Last Wednesday we had an argument and he left the house, he told me he'd be back the next day but I haven't been able to contact him since. His mother told me he is back in his family home and today he finally made contact to ask can he collect his stuff tomorrow. He won't make any comments on why he isn't coming home and some people have mentioned to me that he has an addiction he's been covering.

Just wondering if you all think this is worth fighting for. I've been in 3 serious relationships and thought this was the last one, seriously thought we'd marry. I love him but his lack of contact is confusing. I think I know waking away is best but I'd really love to be back with him now, watching a movie and laughing together....

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u/Klutzy-Echidna-4982 — 4 days ago

Is it worth my time anymore?

This is probably a stupid question but it's helps to get some impartial feedback sometimes. My partner, 39M and me 41F are together 10 months and moved in together after 5 months. Over the past few weeks he's starting to be quite distant, lost his job around the time I got a new one and has been very unmotivated to do anything.

Last Wednesday we had an argument and he left the house, he told me he'd be back the next day but I haven't been able to contact him since. His mother told me he is back in his family home and today he finally made contact to ask can he collect his stuff tomorrow. He won't make any comments on why he isn't coming home and some people have mentioned to me that he has an addiction he's been covering.

Just wondering if you all think this is worth fighting for. I've been in 3 serious relationships and thought this was the last one, seriously thought we'd marry. I love him but his lack of contact is confusing. I think I know waking away is best but I'd really love to be back with him now, watching a movie and laughing together....

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u/Klutzy-Echidna-4982 — 4 days ago
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Strange lights in the sky

Please take a look at this video. Taken late June in Kildare. We thought they were drones at first but they seem too far away, also too organised... any ideas folks?

u/Klutzy-Echidna-4982 — 1 month ago