u/Known-Respect-706

A few years ago, my husband and I had an incident. We were sleeping with our toddler in the bed between us. He started snoring very loudly, waking me up and disturbing our toddler. I reached out to shake his shoulder and accidentally pushed his face. He popped up and started swinging, hitting me and our toddler multiple times. He claims he had no control over this because he was mostly asleep.

Over the past 8 years, he has demanded multiple times that I apologize for "hitting" him in the face while downplaying punching us. Earlier today I told him I was going to punch him in the face if he doesn't stop cussing at our kids and his response was to bring up this incident again, which is why I'm posting now.

AITAH for refusing to apologize and getting extremely angry that he keeps bringing this up?

A few years ago, my husband and I had an incident. We were sleeping with our toddler in the bed between us. He started snoring very loudly, waking me up and disturbing our toddler.

I reached out to shake his shoulder and accidentally pushed his face. He popped up and started swinging, hitting me and our toddler multiple times. He claims he had no control over this because he was mostly asleep.

Over the past 8 years, he has demanded multiple times that I apologize for "hitting" him in the face while downplaying punching us. I feel like we're even because he punched me 3 times.

AITAH for refusing to apologize and getting extremely angry that he keeps bringing this up?