u/Known-Task-7743

34m here I know I'm pretty late but my parents and me myself tried searching a lot in the past 3 years and haven't got a single good match.

This girls profile landed and I casually rejected (for her looks and short curly hair) *yes call me shallow* but I really don't like it, please don't hate me, her pics make me vomit. didn't like it at all. And the fact that we are miles apart I'm in north east and she's in Mumbai and I have no plans of living in that expensive city. Anyway so her dad wants to meet us abd my dad and sis and bro in law all sprung up into action suddenly deciding on hosting them paying for their food lodging they are arriving to meet me in my town I haven't spoken to that girl yet. But my family is already in finalizing mode. They are planning to visit mandir and all after meeting for lunch. I told them a million times I am not interested but seems like no fucks given. I told them to simply just ask go share the daughter's number once so that I can talk once and decide whether to move ahead, most probably it would be a hard No from my side but its all set now they have fixed a date and now forcing me to meet. What do I do run away?

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No hike in This cycle. No promotions.

Top performer awards - and everytime getting some awards every quarter.

Work has quadrupled. PL / TL always say I am due promotion since 2023 Said I am talent priority

Same BS excuse we don't have the budget it's been happening since 2024 December - and no hike 2025 no hike reduced bonus said it will happen in June - so technically reduced my salary overall. In between all this 5 years I saw 2 managers change. The recent manager has no clue about what I do.

What do I do? Please don't say apply for jobs outside have been doing that for a year now market is very bad even you know it.

I am stuck here with a laughable salary.

Yoe: 12 L10 (even some juniors are one level above me so not sure what acn is doing) salary is around : 10lpa + 30k bonus roughly 10.5k$yearly

Dept: acn ops

Woking as an IC. MAL- 32

need idea for an app.

me and my friend thought to build the app in 9th standard called boobradar. It would show girls with big boons in your area nearby, but then we dropped the idea because it would lead to a lot of stalking 🥲💀

so looking for new ideas now open for suggestions,

I see a lot of people who post hey, bored, lonely got no one to talk to around 1 or 2 am.

If that is you let's catch up? Offline? What say we can all go for a walk, or talk, maybe somewhere like link road walking park i know it's late but hey some freaks go for an early morning walk or run at 3 30am so can we.

Just wanting to ask if it's something we can all ✌️💀 .? And it doesn't have to be anything specific like I want to keep it open ended.

Ps. I am pretty old (almost in my 30s now) not sure what the avg age group of that would be but it will be open for all the more the merrier.

Asking for a friend for research purposes only 💀