The estrangement of Elves and Men, and yet there is Lake-town
Frodo and Sam are having dinner with Faramir, and Sam points out that none of Faramir's tales concern the Elves. Sam loves Elves, right? Faramir goes on to say that is because Elves and Men are estranged from each other. And of course if you know the history of the so called Last Alliance between Elves and Men, this should come as no surprise to you.
The thing is, this is Gondor, the most powerful kingdom left in Middle-earth at the time. Yet few knew about Rivendell. Even Boromir and Faramir, the closest thing to royalty that Gondor has, sons of the de facto leader don't know of it. They have to go to their daddy Denethor to explain Imlandris to them. And just up the river, close to their northern border is Lothlorien, which the Gondorians and Rohirrim thinks is ruled by a witch. Once again, they are the most powerful kingdom, yet they have no contact with kingdoms, nations and are potential allies against Sauron.
Yet in the northeast, there is now a kingdom of Men called Dale, and what seems to be a sort of republic called Lake-town. Right next door is a kingdom of Dwarves by the name of Erebor. Off to the east is apparently some other kingdom of Dorwinion. All of them trade and are apparently on good terms with a kingdom of Silvan Elves, the Wood-elves, ruled by Thranduil, a Sindar Elf. They don't live together, obviously, but they live in close proximity. When Smaug destroys Lake-town, Thranduil send relief and saves hundreds, possibly thousands of lives of Men. Even if you discount the idea of helping your business partners in time of need, that was a great act of kindness.
With the exception of Erebor, all these communities seem to be on the primitive side, relative to Gondor, Rivendell and Lothlorien.
Rivendell has been trying to hide ever since the Second Age, so that could be a reason to keep it a secret. Lothlorien seems to be a experiencing a self-imposed exile from everyone but other Elves, and does nothing to discourage it's reputation as a witch haven.
What do you think of this contradiction? The most sophisticated of Elves and Men staying apart, and yet this more simplistic area to the northeast has Elves, Men and Dwarves getting along at least tolerably well?
As always, great thoughts welcomed.