Hi! I (F28) am getting a surgery in October (i know... im planning ahead!)
i'm wondering if anyone knows of a reputable company or person who I could interview to help take care of me?
I don't have any support and would need home care for 2 weeks.
Let me know what you guys think! Thanks!
Hi! I f28 am looking for an At-home care service I can hire to take care of me post-op in October (i'm trying to get ready and plan ahead!!)
I need help for about 2 weeks if that helps!
Has anyone hired a professional service they'd recommend or even a nurse I could interview?
Thank you!!
grapes, watermelon, pineapple platter outside on the grass. needed a little sunshine.
my (f28) ex (m29) was good to me in many ways but he was also not...
he was kind and helped me by giving me guidance with money. he helped with my car. he gave me bday gifts and valentines gifts. we went on adventures together (like museums and hikes in/near our city). he paid for stuff for me and texted when he could.
however, we once had an argument over who's windshield was bigger, i started crying because i hate conflict and also it's not that big of a deal but he was super angry that his was bigger. when i would tell him i was sad he'd say "no you're not! just be happy!!". he told me he didn't wanna be with me bc i didn't like spicy food. when he got upset he'd take his hand away and threatened that he wouldn't do something i enjoyed anymore. when he went on vacation i wouldn't hear from him until he was back.
i broke up with him the first time bc he would try to control things about my life. i broke up the second time because i didn't feel like he loved me.
i keep thinking that im selfish because maybe the bad stuff isn't as bad as i remember. also, i wasn't perfect and im scared that ill never find someone as good again.
idk what to do bc i feel like its all my fault.
I did this reading with my friend. I've been super lost lately and thinking of pulling away from my family. I broke up with my ex a month ago and am in the grieving process but feel as if i'm almost there.
- two of pentacles: being adaptable and willing to make changes
- the lovers: i will make commitments that help me love myself.
- knight of pentacles: im making progress in the right direction.
- eight of cups: walking away from relationships that hurt me.
The statement i had was: please, tell me of my future.
Reddit, please, give me any insight you may have!