Requesting some advices from saggitarius women
Hey, a month ago I met a saggitarius woman born on 18 december and i m a libra born on 18 october. When we first met everything went very fast, later we had sex and we started a relationship. Everything was good until one month later until now when I had to leave with work for 3 weeks and she said she doesn’t have any problems with that as she is pretty independent. When i was working, we would talk almost everyday with small “good morning, have an easy day at work”, in the mid day if she had some issues she would tell me everything and i would help her however I can and in the evening we would continue texting a bit or video call or just audio.
Everything was fine until two days ago when all of the sudden i felt her a bit off and asked her about it and she started telling me that what we started feels a bit too fast for her and she can’t offer what i do to her and that she might not be ok with the fact that i m leaving her with work.. i tried to explain that i can be there for her and find a job at home, but she said that would not be enough. She is pretty stressed out with her work and she just feels like also this relationship is way too much for her but i just want to take things slow with her, not suffocating her at all but in the end she said something like “i don t know maybe i need a break”. Since that the last vocal i got from her was “sorry for not replying i just finished work and i will go home after”. I also replied that i finished my day and i ll go to my accomodation. Since then she didn’t say anything anymore and i m just respecting her space and need for a break and not replying to her anymore, not even small “good morning’s”, i would like to know if i make the right decision not texting her so fast or should i wait a bit longer? Now i m on my way back home and i wanted to see her but i still respect her needs and i also have some things to her place and i don’t know when to initiate the conversation again with her and ask for my things also and maybe to discuss about this situation clearly like two mature people. She will also come in my city on 17 july with work and i don’t know if should i go silent until then (if she’s not texting me at all) or should i start a small conversation with her after 2-4 days? Is there any chance that she’s thinking about us to continue something or she would just go over it. It’s really a shame we are both so good together, i know it was for a short period but everything was smooth without any issues. I also spoke a bit with her sister and she said that sometimes i was to available for her and i pampered her a bit and she’s not used to that as she had only disappointing relationships with very indifferent people, but i m trying not to do that anymore and like i mentioned, respect her break and stay silent.Now i m asking saggitarius woman, what should i do.. should i text her when i land home, just to let her know i m fine atleast? is there any chance to solve this or is most likely over and i m just gonna meet her again to take my stuff and that’s it, maybe then to talk a bit about the situation. She really do appreciate me and doesn’t want to hurt me but that’s not the case, i just wanted her to understand that she’s not a burden for me and i would take things more slowly.. Texting this is a bit hard for me and i can’t fill up every single detail, english is not my main language and i m sorry if there’s any misspelling, i m just on my way to catch my flight and i m really tired :) I just need some guidance and small advices. I m really curious if she would reach me today on my way home.
Thank you in advance!