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Mountains stay still while pebbles make the most noise.
The ocean doesn’t argue with the rain, the moon doesn’t explain why it shines and mountains don’t stop being mountains they just stand there still, unmoved, certain of themselves without needing validation from every passing crowd.
Funny enough, it’s usually the smaller things that make the most noise like pebbles they tend to make the most noise. They keep rolling around, hitting everything in their path, trying to make sure they’re noticed. Maybe that’s why silence feels uncomfortable to them because stillness looks a lot like confidence.
Maybe that’s why silence bothers some people so much. Because being calm looks a lot like confidence.
Just watched Looper and had a strange epiphany I think I understood the ending differently.
The scary part was never the time travel. It was how easy it is to keep revisiting a timeline long after it has already settled into what it was always going to be. Some conversations don’t feel important when they happen. They’re casual, almost forgettable. A passing sentence, a certain tone, a reply so calm it barely registers in the moment.
Then somehow years later, you realize your mind has been revisiting that same moment ever since and adjusting the timing, rewriting the tone, imagining versions where things unfolded a little differently playing alternate realities. But some conversations carry a kind of quiet certainty to them.
The kind that tells you, without ever needing to repeat itself, that certain futures were never really waiting to happen at all..
Maybe the loop only ends when you stop trying to meet the future halfway and simply let it remain what it already chose to be.
So I’m a software developer. If my girlfriend/wife were from a completely different field like medicine and she secretly learned coding just to create a small webpage expressing her love for me, I’d genuinely be on cloud nine. Not because the code or webpage has to be perfect, but because she cared enough to learn something unfamiliar just to connect with me on a deeper level.
It made me wonder how this looks for people in other professions too.
So I’m a software developer. If my girlfriend/wife were from a completely different field like medicine and she secretly learned coding just to create a small webpage expressing her love for me, I’d genuinely be on cloud nine. Not because the code or webpage has to be perfect, but because she cared enough to learn something unfamiliar just to connect with me on a deeper level.
It made me wonder how this looks for people in other professions too.