r/ask_Bondha

Edho post (28F ranting about arranged marriage) comments chaduvuthunte...a guy posted something on the lines of why not look for love marriage, oka serious relationship oo, multiple short relationships oo vunde vuntai ... avi levante you should think why, especially in tech, ~20 guys are behind every girl...

That really made me think...Is that true?

If someone doesn't have any of those...what could be the reason

Is dark humour really wrong, or does it depend on the intention? I make hundreds of dark jokes but I don’t mean em or want to offend anyone. I find em funny and creative and Im like I wanna share these with others and wanna make em laugh as well. Usually Nen dennaina funny angle loney chustha, chinnapati nundi. Serious behaviour ante Ento kuda thelidhu, unless it’s something personal.
Finding something wrong morally but still funny is normal right? Or do I need therapy?

Who decides what is too far the person making the joke, or the people hearing it?

What do you think?

My parents have started looking for matches for me, i earn 32k per month almost. I’m planning on switching jobs and earning 1 lakh per month atleast.
and i told them already, let me earn that amount and let an year pass atleast, then we will start sharing my biodata ani.

They know a relative of ours that are nice people and wealthy, maaku telisina ayyagaaru kuuda, vallu valla ammai kosam matches chusthunnaru, manchi family kosam chusthunnaru, they don’t care about the salary of the guy that much as it will only go upwards, all they care about is that the guy and the family are nice people ani.

so my parents started asking me to share my biodata, since my athamma talked to them already and they wanted to know my details.

I’ve been delaying it again and again but did when my father repeated kept asking me morning and evening.

The girl is a software engineer as well apparently.

A few of my cousins are in marriages where the girl is the only child or has another sister. and the girl’s family is richer than the guy’s family, they don’t make the guy’s family feel like shit either. or manipulate or force opinions on the guy and his family.

Okkasari miku telisina stories emaina unte cheppandi, where the guy’s family is in a financially weaker position.

So nen over the years melaga atheist side veltuna.

But asalu untai. If they ain't in my hands completely.devuda help ani adgutha. Ee constant korikalu asalu bayalu these things nalo oka dilema ni create chestai.

So what do u think abt this . And what would u ask god

Anonymity becomes less meaningful, it encourages personal branding more...It shifts Reddit from community-centric to user-centric. Reddit was always more about subreddits rather than actual users.

Is this a direction they picked to become a platform like x or insta...?

Yeppudooo 2 weeks back skyr techukunna. Adhi two days back expire aipoindhi but open cheyyale seal. Expire ayyindi ani chusaaka kuda thinnaanu. Ante I took a good look at it and I smelled it. Paravaledhanipinchindi. Thinesa. Ippudu bhayamga undhi 😭 emaina teda avuddhemo ani.

Please give me advice from your personal experience of having expired food.

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are you planning it to do it again

Nen ippud btech 2nd year , recent ga diploma chesi ocha , diploma lo peddaga em chesindi ledu but manchi cg to passout ayya , I thought that btech join ayyaka focused ga undi skills , project and DSA chestha ani , but ma clg vallu assignments , records , lab notes and you know what they are literally asking class notes to give marks , champutunnar bro . Idi antha kadu annatu exams anta 😭 , basic ga btech aipothado ledo kani adi aipoye lopu nen aipoyela unna .

Is there anything I can do to manage all ts and be consistent.

Is anybody had went through this and survived please help me 🤧😖

So nenu(25M), hyderabad lo untanu, i have been to Mumbai quite a lot of times, almost 1 year akkada internship chesanu, relatives unnaru(but telsu kada ekadki poina intla okate pata, relatives inlallo undodhu, not for visiting also).

So last year atla oka 4 days trip esna, ganesh chaturthi time lo, it's fun, and it was a solo trip, I enjoyed quite well, and ee sari kuda plan cheskunna, I'm going also.

Nen solo ga poina kuda I can enjoy, but oka batch lo aina, or Evarina frnds/telsina vallu unte best ani, 1 week plan cheskunna, nak gender bias em ledu, Evarina vastarantanante, it will be fun.

Nannu adgochu, me frnds tho po ani, but evar raru, Edo oka reason cheppi skip kodtaru, ippud kuda ee post tho evarki farak padadu, aina just asking 😅

Enthaina petti puttundali, friends tho trips ante 😅🤣

It's been more than 5 years since I stopped talking to my sister Even though We live in the same house, Whenever I Had to talk which is urgent like calling my father or informing anything, I go near her room without looking at her, I stare at wall and inform her anything if it is urgent and whenever I need something I address Her as "SOMEONE" like can SOMEONE(her) give me your phone I need to call father. I only ask if it is very very urgent.

She is 4 years younger than me, She constantly used to insult me for various reasons and Always tried to demean me I dropped out of Btech due to severe mental health issues and suffered through a lot, didn't got job at the right time, so according to her i am a failure and don't deserve respect, So during family discussions Whenever I talk she along with my big sister gang up on me, They pick up small thing I say during the discussion and try to fight me.

My parents always sides with them, During one heated arguments my father said, "Vallu Aadavallu intiki maha lakshmi valla UCCHA(URINE) Tagina thappu ledu".

Whenever this festival comes I need to act like her brother and have to let her tie rakhi and then everything goes normal and we don't talk.

It feels like dying cause I don't want to see her face or anything to do with her, cause the level of insults i endured from her and another older sister gave me suicidal thoughts.

We welcomed our first born recently and these are our finalists. NARAPAREDDY is surname. So there isn't much flexibility with that.

Pls vote for either

1. Nachiket Ram Narapareddy

2. Nandan Shreyas Narapareddy

Appreciate your time commenting! Thanks!

Which would you prefer?

I did shopping in reliance trends in Vijayawada and then boarded IntrCity bus to Hyderabad , and then to some touristic place .

Ironically or coincidence; I have received 3 calls same days requesting (but demanding nature ) to submit 5 ⭐️ reviews and send them screenshot

I understand bus service and touristic place needs reviews to attract business .
But reliance trends , seriously bro ? First fix the A/C in Benz circle show room before asking good reviews

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Very recently I came to know that only people who follow Islam are allowed to marry multiple women. Why are Hindus being treated like second class citizens in India? No wonder there is a population collapse amoung Hindus and explosion among muslims. Every citizen must be allowed to marry as many women as he/she wishes with no restrictions.

For eg mkc duh females have puh... Edho walla father ki unatu thidutharu endhuko artham kadhu

Same with bkl ? Are they saying trying to be homophobic

Ento emo e northies bhuthulu

Ben Affleck shares how he overcame his alcohol addiction. Says it is not "overpriced rehabs".

"I hate to say it but the cure for addiction and the only cure I've seen is not these overpriced rehabs or these fraudulent fixes that are sold to people"

"The cure for addiction is suffering"

"You suffer enough and then something inside you goes 'I'm done"

like is this true , one fine random day ala lechesiii annii aapeyali anpinchestadaa..

mari aaroj enduk kontha mandikeee ostad

kontha mandi why are they stuck on infinite loops

ive grown up watching tollywood movies but back then ive never realised how deeply embedded this in the psyche of telugu youth. why is it that cinema is such a massive part of youngsters’ personalities? whenever i go to india, i see kids my age just living and breathing this stuff. and the worst part is why do u treat actors like gods vaalu emaina pedthara meeku? cinema is just a 2 hr entertainment, hows it something that you fixate your entire life on lol.

So i was watching some movie where the lyrics goes like “modhati muddhu lo teliyani thanamu, modati premalo theeyandanamu”

I never really experienced it so i want to know how does it feel. How did you feel about it