TLDR; I want to vent my heart out.

TLDR; I want to vent my heart out.

This story started when my class 10th began (June 2022). I had an online friend (Veer) that used to send me reels all the time. One day he decides to make a group of all his friends into 1 single insta group. So he added me there. On that group, I was introduced to a girl, Aparna (not her real name btw). She sent me follow request and I followed back. Then she started DMing me. We used to talk about music, movies, reels, and many things more. She was from Gurgaon, i am from Lucknow. We became really good friends, and after some days became BESTIES. We chatted daily until she went on a long break from (Dec 2022- March 2023) due to board exams.

Class 11th started. When she came back online, she started talking about how her other friends backbitched her in school, she yapped this for a week straight. I had to calm her down and listened to all her rant. She became more talkative, and started to give me some MIXED SIGNALS. Everything was going normal. One day she said "I am taking a break from Dec 2023 to April 2024 for exams", I said okay.

Feb 2024: Veer messaged me "Bro did you and Aparna talk to each other?". I said "No, why? She's on a break". Veer said "oh nevermind". 2 weeks later this thing still repeated and I still said no.

May 2024: Class 12th began. Aparna came back online but this time she started to GHOST ME, as if she doesn't care. She used to reply after 16-20 hrs. I couldn't understand what happened to her.

Oct 2024: I was celebrating Diwali, and when I opened Insta to wish her, found out that she BLOCKED ME. 💔 Till this day it hurts.

Since you made it so far, Thanks for reading.

u/LargerThanLife07 — 17 hours ago

*Help* hostel payment failed

I've been trying to pay the GHS hostel fees through Netbanking but it says bank account doesn't exist, even tho all correct credentials. And even UPI and Debit card transactions are failing. What to do?

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u/LargerThanLife07 — 2 months ago

🚫 *Don't Pre-Buy Laundry & Gym at MUJ*

TLDR

📋 *What's covered:*

• 🏋️‍♂️ Gym — plans & tips

• 🧺 Laundry reality — cycles & sharing

• 🧼 Hostel vs Outside laundry comparison

• 💰 Outside Laundry pricing

• 📌 Bottom

Both gym and laundry can be bought *on demand, anytime* during the college session — don't pay early without reading this!

🏋️‍♂️ *Gym:*

• Two gyms available on campus — try both for a day and go with where you *vibe*

• Plans: monthly, 3-month & yearly — all available on demand once session starts

• ⚠️ They push yearly plans first, but shorter plans open up soon

• Many who buy yearly *quit later* due to laziness or studies

✅ Start with a short plan, upgrade only if you stay

🧺 *Laundry Reality:*

• Hostel plan = 30 cycles (6kg each) = 180kg total

• Most students only use *15–17 cycles* in a year

• In *double sharing* → 1 person buys, other pays half & shares

• 15-cycle plans also available once session starts

• If cycles run out → buy unused ones from friends

✅ Don't overbuy — smaller plans exist and friends are a backup

🧼 *Hostel Laundry vs Outside Laundry:*

🏠 *Hostel Laundry — ₹8,810/year:*

• 30 cycles × 6kg = 180kg quota

• Bag ≤6kg → 1 cycle deducted

• Bag >6kg → 2 cycles deducted

• Most students can't fully utilise 180kg (clothes are rarely exactly 6kg, so cycles get wasted)

• Turnaround: *2–3 days*

• 3–5 min walk inside hostel campus

🏪 *Outside Laundry — Kwiss Wash (example):*

• Deducts *actual weight* every time — give 3kg, only 3kg deducted. No wastage

• Turnaround: *next day* (rarely more)

• Available *20 seconds from hostel main gate* — laundry van parked daily *5–8 PM*

• Better clothing care

💰 *Kwiss Wash Plans:*

• 60kg (6 months) — ₹3,399

• 90kg (1 year) — ₹4,799

• 150kg (1 year) — ₹7,799

• Wash & Iron: ₹60/kg | Free pickup | 24×7 service

• 📞 7688822292

📌 *Bottom Line:*

❌ Don't buy gym/laundry before arriving

✅ Settle in first, observe your routine, then decide

✅ Outside laundry is often *cheaper + more efficient* for most students

✅ Saves *money + flexibility*

📌 Save this for onboarding!

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u/LargerThanLife07 — 2 months ago