Sex with my SCI boyfriend
I’ve able bodied but my boyfriend of two months is not. We had sex for the first time yesterday and I started crying out of no where and couldn’t stop because I knew all the work I was putting in felt like nothing to him. I didn’t want to tell him that’s why I was so upset so I made up a story about how intense it was physically and we continued. This morning I gave him oral after a few minutes he asked me to stop because it was “pointless“ I feel so bad for him I wish there was something I could do. I feel so useless knowing this just is what it is for him. It will be three years for him being a paraplegic this June and he hasn’t had sex since before the incident. I guess I dont have a question to ask, just hoping someone from this side of the relationship can relate and let me know it gets better.