u/Last_Yogurtcloset275

I 29F ended things with my boyfriend 29M of 8 months. It was going on since 2 months, and I just needed basic communication from him. Like text me or call me atleast once a day. I know its not normal that a couple speaks once in four days. We work in the same team in the office, and I know no one is too busy to talk. Everything was good for the initial six months. And i dont know what happened that this distance came between us. And every time i spoke to him he said everything is fine. There’s no distance and all that. And everytime he said he will try more. But its been 2 months now and nothing changed. Last week i gathered all my courage and said i wanted to end the relationship as I cannot be with someone who thinks its okay to not speak for like a week. When i went home 3 weeks ago, he didnt even ask whether I landed or not. But when I was ending it, he told me I can fix it just trust me. Everything is fine between us. He even said I know you are leaving but I will bring you back. Its been a week now, nothing changed. I dont reach out, and he hasnt even called me or texted me even once.

Just need a man’s perspective that what is going on???

I (29F) and the guy that I am seeing (28M) have known each other since more than 2 years, but started going out as a couple 8 months ago. We were really good friends since the beginning. Since we started seeing each other, everything is perfect. I literally have no complaints. He is consistent. Texts calls and meets almost every day. Plans our day out and everything. But when it comes to sex he straight up says No. To give some context, i have had more experience sexually and relationship wise than him, and he knows it. He never had a serious relationship just one or two casual dating situation that too years before meeting me. He is not a virgin.

Although when we get intimate we definitely do other stuff and we both really enjoy it, but when i ask him to do it, he straight up says No. Earlier when we started dating, i said no initially. I told him i needed some time and he was okay with that. After a few months i told him i am ready but he said No. And its not like he is rude or anything. He said he was scared that things might change between us. And he says that he is not ready. What might be the problem?