u/Lauraxoxo777

Im 17f and my mom 52f who had cancer died about an hour ago in her sleep, she was in no pain. I just had gone outside with my sister when it happened and my brother called me to come back, he sounded calm. When we got to her room my brothers girlfriend was there crying and we knew right away she had passed.
I felt nothing even though i started crying but i know i havent prosessed this at all and im scared when is it gonna hit me.

We spent the whole day in the hospital because her condition had crashed, she barely was breathing, she was so heavily medicated she wasnt making any sense and was just staring straight forward and was really quiet. She didnt even look at any of us. Then they had to give her something to make her fall asleep basically unconscious, after that her breathing sounded so painful i couldnt be in the room, for the most part i was just sitting outside her door waiting for her to wake up, which she never did.

What should i focus on now? What has helped you with losing a mother? How do i continue in life rn, im starting my last year in school and i have finals i should be studying for and i dont know how im supposed to do any of that

Im 17f and my mom 52 has cancer. She had to come to the hospital since she couldn’t be at home anymore due to her struggles with breathing. She has been tired etc but i have been able to talk to her.
Today when we came to visit her, her condition has gotten really really bad. Shes basically on drugs now and her breathing is barely working on its own. I dont recognize her at all, she doesnt talk and is just not my mom anymore.
She got some medication that made her fall asleep and the sound of her breathing will probably haunt me for the rest of my life. It sounds like shes suffocating all the time and i cant be in the room while she sounds like that, it just hurts too much.
I have never felt this kind of pain. The fact that yesterday was the last day i actually was with my mother and talked to her, because this is not her.

What advice would you give to someone in this situation, im so lost and in pain.

Im 17f and soon going to lose my mom to cancer. Whats something that has helped you going through mother loss?

Are there any people who have lost a parent to cancer in their teenage years on here? Im 17 and my mom is dying from cancer, most people ive talked to have been much older than me and id really like to talk with someone who has experienced something similar around my age.

What’s one piece of advice you would give someone who has lost their loved one to cancer?

My mom (52) is dying. Recently ive been feeling the loneliest i have ever felt. I have friends and a partner who always let me talk but none of them ever reach out to me. I told my best friends that my mom is dying 2 weeks ago. Not a single one of them has checked up on me after that. Is this weird and are my feelings valid? I feel selfish but also i would act differently if they were in my situation.
My mom was diagnosed 2 years ago and it has always been the same not just now, none of my closest friends have asked me anything if i haven’t gone to talk to them myself.

Im 17 and my mom 55 was diagnosed with cancer 2 years ago, today the doctors told us that all there is to do is give my mom pain meds and let the cancer spread. Genuinely what do i do? I feel so angry and scared.