u/Lauren_Aa

I wanted to ask you people what's the mindset behind the incels and redpillers on the subreddit called "Womendontlikemen"? It's filled of men who are either incels or redpillers saying that because a straight woman isn't into all men, that means she must be a closeted lesbian. I tried to explain to them the difference between general libido between men and women, and the real meaning of heterosexuality, but they say that gay men actually like men more than straight women because they're pretty much less picky and have more sex than women. Do these people understand that men and women are different, biologically?

Hello everyone. I'm here because I want to ask you all if there's any of you people who are mixed but are totally White-passing?

The thing is, I'm 72% White (Spanish) and 28% Non-White (Taína/Black/Filipina). I have pale White skin, dark green eyes, straight light brown hair, and small European facial features. I'm ethnically Hispanic/Latina, but I got told my whole life that I look Polish or German... or basically anywhere from Europe. No one ever guesses I'm Latinamerican. I've been told that because of that I'm not Latina/not Hispanic (because I don't look like the stereotypical Mestiza Latina). That made me have an identity crisis when I was a younger. Like... some people tell me to stop calling myself 'Mixed' because I don't look like it, and then others have told me that if I don't call myself 'Mixed', that means I have inferiority complex and that I'm a wannabe White. I wish I had the same colors as Jennifer López, at least I would look ambiguous.

Being Mixed but 100% White-passing is too tiring mentally, tbh. Has someone here gone through the same thing?