u/Lavalamps4life

First month TTC after TFMR

This month is our first TTC after our TFMR in June. We waited a full cycle after the procedure to make sure I had a proper period, but due to my age, we don't want to wait longer. My doctor cleared us to try again.

I'm generally doing OK and I've been hopeful about trying. But now that I think I've ovulated, I'm just feeling really anxious and sad about conception because I KNOW that what happened last time was just a really unlucky event that had nothing to do with my age or anything that we did, but I can't help but worry that I could do something around now to cause something like it again :(

I guess I'm not looking for advice, but I needed to share with people who would understand <3

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u/Lavalamps4life — 19 hours ago

Flying after d&amp;e at 20 weeks?

Hi all. I'm sadly in the limbo of waiting for the karyotype to come back from our amniocentesis, but our FISH was positive for mosaic turners. My husband and I are still discussing because the ultrasounds are completely clear and if we hadn't done the NIPT because of my age (38) we wouldn't have known. I know it's better to be informed, and there are results that if they show up in the karyotype (ring structures), we will definitely proceed with TMFR.

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However, my timeline is difficult as we likely won't get our results until early next week. So I'm planning to schedule the appointment for the day after and I can cancel if we change our minds. However, I need to fly two days later for a family event. I know I will likely feel like trash, but was anyone told they can't fly two days later? Did anyone travel? I think being with my family will be a great distraction after, but I can't ask a doctor until the appointment. If it's really necessary, I can take the train, but it would turn a 2 hour trip into an 8-10 hour one. Thank you for any insight.

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u/Lavalamps4life — 2 months ago