u/Left-Violinist1382

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في 2026 ولازم يخلد في التاريخ للاجيال القادمة كنوع من انواع التراث

والله ولسة فيكي خير يا بلد

Honestly this is very frustrating when I think about it, irrelgious girls are already a minority, and probably at least 90% of them wear hijab, I'd be left with only a minority of a minority of options to search for the remaining compatibilities

And I fully realize that most of them are wearing it against their will and they can't do anything about it or will go through intolerable shit if they decide to take it off, but in the same time I think it's not fair for me to be with a girl who has to hide her hair and wear conservative clothes and conceal 80% of her feminine features for 80% of the time

what do you think of this?

Honestly this is very frustrating when I think about it, irrelgious girls are already a minority, and probably at least 90% of them wear hijab, I'd be left with only a minority of a minority of options to search for the remaining compatibilities

And I fully realize that most of them are wearing it against their will and they can't do anything about it or will go through intolerable shit if they decide to take it off, but in the same time I think it's not fair for me to be with a girl who has to hide her hair and wear conservative clothes and conceal 80% of her feminine features for 80% of the time

what do you think of this?

معلومات اكتر عني:

- شغال بقالي سنة مبرمج ومرتاح في شغلي

- بحب الانمي والانجلش ميوزك والاماكن الاثرية

- شكلي كويس وبهتم بمظهري

- introvert يعتبر بس بحب الخروج والتجارب الجديدة عادي

بدور على ايه؟

- بنت لادينية من خلفية مسلمة

- يفضل تكون مش محجبة

- يفضل يكون مكاننا متقارب

- تكون مش عايزة تخلف

- تكون عندها اهتمامات وحياة

وبرضو دا بوست مفصل اكتر كنت كاتبه من فترة:

https://www.reddit.com/r/ExEgyptDating/s/gQupCkp4Cq

text me if we seem compatible

Hello there, an ex-muslim agnostic dude from Giza who's searching for a meaningful connection

-More about me:

1. I have been working as a software engineer in a big company for around a year now.

2. I have a decent appearance, I have a skin care routine and I keep my hair and facial hair in shape ( i prefer most of the time to just keep only a light shadow beard because it makes my face more masculine instead of a baby face look but i look more like i don't have a beard than i do)

3. I go to gym several times a week and plan on keeping that routine, I currently have a slim body and I'm gradually gaining some weight; my goal is an aesthetic proportionate body.

4. I'm very much into fashion and good outfits, I'm not a traditional dresser, I wear my clothes with intention and taste in a way that complements my features and body type rather than work against it.

5. In general, I have more of a soft masculinity and aesthetic boy vibe/energy rather than a hyper masculine or tough one, think Tom Holland or Timothee Chalamet for example.

6. Some of my interests: I like anime, I like historical places and museums, statues, and monuments, some of my favorite shows or films are: arcane, Lucifer ( i loved the biblical references), the others, Invincible, silver linings playbook, attack on titan, Jujitsu kaisen...

7. I'm a music nerd and i have listened to many genres across the years, but my favorites are modern symphonic/doom/prog metal ( within temptation, Opeth, Leprous, draconian, epica, swallow the sun, evanescence, and other similar bands), modern experimental pop ( charli xcx, dorian electra, halsey, lady gaga), also i like some classics like queen, led zeppelin, guns n roses.

8. I think I'm probably neurodivergent ( i don't have an official diagnosis, but i had to learn how to deal with the way my brain functions), and also i'm an introvert who values deep one on one connection more than large groups interactions, but in the same time I'm not a stereotypical introvert; and in fact i'm actually outgoing, I like going out, i like trying new things out of my comfort zone and new experiences, I like interacting with interesting people...

-What I'm looking for as a minimum and don't want to compromise on:

1. No hijab: I understand that many of you are wearing it unwillingly and due to societal pressure, but it's an important aspect to me; I appreciate seeing a girl's full features, and her unconstrained style. If you wear it in a relaxed or partial way only i'm also okay with that, but you gotta be intending to remove it completely later, and you are 100% sure that you won't keep it.

2. Being in healthy weight, or slim.

3. This one is a continuation to the first two points, but I want someone who likes to put effort in their looks and likes to be polished and well put together; I like good make up and well cared for hair, I want a girl who enjoys fashion and intentional outfits, etc.

4. Maturity and emotional intelligence.

5. Communication: I want someone who can express themselves clearly and doesn't just write one or two words responses; and also this doesn't mean that I don't wanna read between the lines or put effort into understanding you, I still wanna put effort, but i just don't wanna feel like i'm talking to myself all the time.

6. Curiosity: if we click, i want someone who I feel like she is genuinely interested and curious and passionate and not just fulfilling a duty, and someone who's capable of appreciating our connection and expressing that.

7. I want someone who doesn't want kids and appreciates child-free living, I think i can change my mind if there's absolutely good conditions for raising children as an irrelgious couple, but i think a good rule to have is that i want someone who mainly doesn't want kids, and if either of us changes their mind after many years together, we still won't have kids, basically we both have to change our minds later and have good right conditions for it, and it would be later in life and not now, i need someone who's okay with this. But if having kids is one of your main goals, then we're not suitable.

8. Ideally, you have some kind of job or work and are passionate about having some kind of career, I value independency and character development that comes from growing, learning, and interacting with people. If you're still studying or figuring things out, it's okay still as long as you still want to pursue a career and you are working on it and it's just a matter of time.

9. I don't smoke or drink, I'm not against occasional every once in a while fun, but i don't want someone who smokes or drinks regularly.

10. I want a girl who sees herself as an equal partner and acts based on it, this doesn't mean splitting the bill or doing everything 50/50; I still expect to have the bigger financial contribution in the relationship, but i don't want to fully carry everything and feel taken for granted. And I'm fully open to contributing to house chores as well and don't expect a girl who maintains a home fully on her own on top of a job as well.

-Things that I consider a plus but could compromise on:

1. Location: I live in giza so obviously it's better if you're close to my location, but if you're in another governorate that's not very far away (2-3 hours of traveling for example) I can still travel to you bi-weekly or something if we're a really good match.

2. Preferably, I want someone who is already satisfied with their life and looking for a relationship to complement it and doesn't just want to enter a relationship in hope of fixing their life, but it's not a dealbreaker as long as you understand yourself and know what you want.

3. Having some shared interests: this would make connecting a bit easier obviously.

4. I dream of traveling to europe or an English speaking country (maybe the gulf as well) after several years but i'm not sure if i'll find a good opportunity but will do what i can to get there one day, so it's also good if you have a similar goal...

I know you might have gotten the impression that I talk a lot about superficial things, but I wanted to give a clear picture of who I'm and how I think and be specific as much as I can, and I assure you it's only a part of who I'm and not everything, I value emotional connection and personality just as much as superficial things, I just wanted to make everything clear in hope of finding a good match where we both can make each other happy and satisfied, and in the same time I don't expect a perfect person or a robot, we're all humans in the end, I just want a person who puts effort into themselves and knows what she wants. Thank you very much if you read until the end, and I'm waiting for your message!

Hello there, an ex-muslim agnostic dude from Giza who's searching for a meaningful connection

-More about me:

1. I have been working as a software engineer in a big company for around a year now.

2. I have a decent appearance, I have a skin care routine and I keep my hair and facial hair in shape ( i prefer most of the time to just keep only a light shadow beard because it makes my face more masculine instead of a baby face look but i look more like i don't have a beard than i do)

3. I go to gym several times a week and plan on keeping that routine, I currently have a slim body and I'm gradually gaining some weight; my goal is an aesthetic proportionate body.

4. I'm very much into fashion and good outfits, I'm not a traditional dresser, I wear my clothes with intention and taste in a way that complements my features and body type rather than work against it.

5. In general, I'm have more a soft masculinity and aesthetic boy vibe/energy rather than a hyper masculine or tough one, think Tom Holland or Timothee Chalamet for example.

6. Some of my interests: I like anime, I like historical places and museums, statues, and monuments, some of my favorite shows or films are: arcane, Lucifer ( i loved the biblical references), the others, Invincible, silver linings playbook, attack on titan, Jujitsu kaisen...

7. I'm a music nerd and i have listened to many genres across the years, but my favorites are modern symphonic/doom/prog metal ( within temptation, Opeth, Leprous, draconian, epica, swallow the sun, evanescence, and other similar bands), modern experimental pop ( charli xcx, dorian electra, halsey, lady gaga), also i like some classics like queen, led zeppelin, guns n roses.

8. I think I'm probably neurodivergent ( i don't have an official diagnosis, but i had to learn how to deal with the way my brain functions), and also i'm an introvert who values deep one on one connection more than large groups interactions, but in the same time I'm not a stereotypical introvert; and in fact i'm actually outgoing, I like going out, i like trying new things out of my comfort zone and new experiences, I like interacting with interesting people...

-What I'm looking for as a minimum and don't want to compromise on:

1. No hijab: I understand that many of you are wearing it unwillingly and due to societal pressure, but it's an important aspect to me; I appreciate seeing a girl's full features, and her unconstrained style. If you wear it in a relaxed or partial way only i'm also okay with that, but you gotta be intending to remove it completely later, and you are 100% sure that you won't keep it.

2. Being in healthy weight, or slim.

3. This one is a continuation to the first two points, but I want someone who likes to put effort in their looks and likes to be polished and well put together; I like good make up and well cared for hair, I want a girl who enjoys fashion and intentional outfits, etc.

4. Maturity and emotional intelligence.

5. Communication: I want someone who can express themselves clearly and doesn't just write one or two words responses; and also this doesn't mean that I don't wanna read between the lines or put effort into understanding you, I still wanna put effort, but i just don't wanna feel like i'm talking to myself all the time.

6. Curiosity: if we click, i want someone who I feel like she is genuinely interested and curious and passionate and not just fulfilling a duty, and someone who's capable of appreciating our connection and expressing that.

7. I want someone who doesn't want kids and appreciates child-free living, I think i can change my mind if there's absolutely good conditions for raising children as an irrelgious couple, but i think a good rule to have is that i want someone who mainly doesn't want kids, and if either of us changes their mind after many years together, we still won't have kids, basically we both have to change our minds later and have good right conditions for it, and it would be later in life and not now, i need someone who's okay with this. But if having kids is one of your main goals, then we're not suitable.

8. Ideally, you have some kind of job or work and are passionate about having some kind of career, I value independency and character development that comes from growing, learning, and interacting with people. If you're still studying or figuring things out, it's okay still as long as you still want to pursue a career and you are working on it and it's just a matter of time.

9. I don't smoke or drink, I'm not against occasional every once in a while fun, but i don't want someone who smokes or drinks regularly.

10. I want a girl who sees herself as an equal partner and acts based on it, this doesn't mean splitting the bill or doing everything 50/50; I still expect to have the bigger financial contribution in the relationship, but i don't want to fully carry everything and feel taken for granted. And I'm fully open to contributing to house chores as well and don't expect a girl who maintains a home fully on her own on top of a job as well.

-Things that I consider a plus but could compromise on:

1. Location: I live in giza so obviously it's better if you're close to my location, but if you're in another governorate that's not very far away (2-3 hours of traveling for example) I can still travel to you bi-weekly or something if we're a really good match.

2. Preferably, I want someone who is already satisfied with their life and looking for a relationship to complement it and doesn't just want to enter a relationship in hope of fixing their life, but it's not a dealbreaker as long as you understand yourself and know what you want.

3. Having some shared interests: this would make connecting a bit easier obviously.

4. I dream of traveling to europe or an English speaking country (maybe the gulf as well) after several years but i'm not sure if i'll find a good opportunity but will do what i can to get there one day, so it's also good if you have a similar goal...

I know you might have gotten the impression that I talk a lot about superficial things, but I wanted to give a clear picture of who I'm and how I think and be specific as much as I can, and I assure you it's only a part of who I'm and not everything, I value emotional connection and personality just as much as superficial things, I just wanted to make everything clear in hope of finding a good match where we both can make each other happy and satisfied, and in the same time I don't expect a perfect person or a robot, we're all humans in the end, I just want a person who puts effort into themselves and knows what she wants. Thank you very much if you read until the end, and I'm waiting for your message!