u/Legal_Spring_2731

You guys can see my previous post where SADAPAY, tried to deduct 10k from my empty account. And putting my account on negative, I tried contacting them for days yet they ignored me and didn’t solve my issue. I tried deleting my account they wont let me then I froze my card and unfroze it 2 days ago. Today they called me and said legal action will be taken against me if I don’t put the money in the account and clear out payments.

(I got Eidi 10k from my family the moment that money went to my sadapay I transferred it to another bank quickly) ( after 10-15 days SADAPAY tried deducting that amount and covering it as reversal). I did check my father’s bank account who had sent me that money there was no reversal there on his end)

For the very first time I wanted to buy an expensive kurta. I have always got myself cheap clothes because my family has taught me that to not waste money on anything expensive. So naturally I live my life like that. I dont have any demands wishes needs. But I am learning to have demands wishes and needs. I finally landed a job after being unemployed for a year. And I pay the house bills everything. I’m short of cash and my parents will never buy it for me. So I have accepted my fate.
But one thing is that I am proud and feel like I am changing. I am loving myself more. I have been selfless all my life. For the first time I am trying to love things for myself and not finding/doing things to show love/care for another individual and forgetting about myself. I get ready for myself now. I brush my teeth keep my skin moisturised, wear sunscreen. Last month I bought myself a lip oil from miniso (I usually buy cheap makeup)-one dollar shop. I am taking care of my hair again. I am slowly losing weight and getting out of a very difficult situation. I hope i survive. Thankyou for listening.