AITA for telling my roommate I don't want him to bring guys home anymore?
My roommate (20M) and I (20M) have been living together for the past one and a half years, and he is constantly bringing guys home. We live in a two bedroom apartment, so it's not the privacy I'm worried about, but it just really annoys me when he has people over. Even though we only moved in with each other for college, we've been friends since we were 14 and it's always irritated me whenever he had someone he was dating around. A couple days ago I brought up the fact that it annoys me when he brings guys to our apartment, and he got very upset with me. We got into a fight where I admitted that it just irritates me when he brings his boyfriends or even hookups to our apartment or around me in general and he got angry and made a suggestion that I was homophobic. So am I the asshole? I've never thought of myself as homophobic, but maybe I am without realizing it?
Edit: I see now that I was kinda unclear why it annoys me, so to clear some things up here are the main reasons. 1) I can hear sometimes them when they have sex, although it has never really bothered me before when I can hear my friends hooking up with someone I'm thinking maybe the stress from all my college classes or something may be impacting it. 2) The people he chooses to date are really annoying and honestly I think he can do way better. 3) Yes I would feel the same if he dated girls
Edit 2: Something I didn't really mention or think about too much before now tbh is that he dated someone in highschool who he spent all his time with and I almost never saw him, so I don't really want that to happen again. I think I don't like the idea of him getting into a relationship and leaving me behind, especially since, as corny as it sounds, since were kids we've kinda been a package deal, like his friends have always been my friends and stuff like that.
Update: I may be in love with my best friend. I think it's something I've known for a while, but the many people saying this in the replies has kind of given me the push I needed to realize this fully. I am going to have a talk with him soon. As for the fanfiction people were mentioning, I actually enjoyed it more than I thought I would. I definitely see a few similarities. Funny enough, he made me watch Heated Rivalry with him at some point and the gay sex kinda turned me on so that probably should have been a sign.