u/Legitimate-Umpire654

Ottawa County Oklahoma

Ok so my mom passed away and the day after I went to plan my mom's funeral. My sister has always bullied me from the time she could bite. She kept telling me to shut up. I finally had enough and told her no and for her to shut up and listen. The next day she came over and took over. Before my mom passed she told me that she didn't want my sis to be a part of anything concerning her death, or her estate. She wanted everything to go to my oldest son who had been there since he was 18. I was there as a caretaker but didn't live there. My mom hadn't signed her new will yet. She and her son stole things that didn't belong to my parents. My stepdad died in 2018. She did tell her hospice care team as well as several family members what she wanted but in Oklahoma there has to be video will or a written will. My oldest son and my youngest son are both special needs and my parents had Adult Guardianship over my oldest son. Both of my special needs sons and I were living with my mom at the time of her death. She wanted everything to go to my oldest son with the exception of her car she wanted that to go to me so I could take both my sons to Drs appointments or whatever. The second day she came in with a police officer and she took videos of both my son's rooms as well as mine saying she had to. She tried to block me in my room so I got loud enough that the police officer came. She has stalked us. Oh before my mom passed my sister would come over and bully my mom and oldest son all the time but my oldest son wouldn't let her. She caused my mom to have multiple hospital stays because of her bullying. What do I do.