R/Will my ex boyfriend be able to move on to having casual sex during our break up if I was the only one to help him work through delayed ejaculation? Will he have the same problem I had at the beginning with other women?
ok so this is a tad long, but my ex and I broke up about a week ago (he is an avoidant). from the beginning of our relationship, I noticed we would have intercourse for over an hour and he wouldn't cum. I kept silent but it was so painful.
I thought maybe with time things would get better. a few months down the road I noticed thing were not progressing (I hadn't brought it up to him). i decided to have the tough conversation with him. long story short, he told me he had struggled with it for years and has always been an issue with girls he's been with, especially ones he cared for. I was here for him, we explored other things sexually (rimming and some anal play).
he is as straight as they come fyi. we were able to break through and fix the problem. ok so here is my question: since he was only able to cum with me, does this mean that no other girl can do the job. it's very mental. oddly enough; we sexted yesterday and he told me I was the only one that could get him there. his hand didn't do the job like it use to. crazy how the tables turn