Why does he keep trying to keep us together
Boyfriend addicted to porn and live chats, dating sites. Its hard for me to understand how its easy for him to tell they are sexy, hot, beautiful, cute, or just damn!! But with me when I ask him to tell me what he's physically attracted to about me its more basic like my personality or all of me never my boobs or my smile or he just gets hard thinking about me. I know most wo.en would appreciate the respectfulness of his answer. I know though initially he wasn't attracted to me and I pursued him. Im not his type compared to last girlfriends. But he refuses to break up swearing he loves me but can't have sex anymore with me and as much as he's " trying to quit" whenever he has the opportunity to do it with anything else he does. Then he says he wants to but gives me excuses. Why does he keep me in this web if he's not sexually attracted to me and doesn't even have sex with me. He just keeps telling me he is and he's just f@#king used to it and its so hard to change it. That the hour one time a week in therapy ain't helping and he wants to stop he needs my help. But I feel like he just knows I will be here always. We don't have kids, not married and we rarely if ever have sex anymore. Why won't he walk away. Why do I feel like if I do Im letting him down on the progress he is making. I am asking for other guys who have been there or are willing to let me know what your take is on this. Please no rude comments. Im truly trying to understand if its the addiction or control. Thanks in advance.