please help me! (safe teen s*x)
I (17F) want to have s*x one single time with my boyfriend (18M) before we go 500 miles of long distance. We are both v*rgins and we have been considering having s*x recently. Neither of us want me to get pr*gnant though. I am thinking this will happen in about a month/month and a half, before he leaves. If I start Opill, ideally now, have him use a high quality c*ndom/l*be (and hold the end of it after he finishes or even just have him pull out), use sp*rmicide, and take plan b afterward, what are the risks, and how common is it for me to get pr*gnant from that? I am very paranoid about getting pr*gnant and want to avoid it at all costs, and my parents would be mad. They aren't anti-s*x, but they said I have to do it safely, and I of course agree with that. Also, my boyfriend and I have had an*l s*x about 5 times now, and have never had a c*ndom issue. And also for reference I do not track my cycle. Help, tips, advice, etc or just input would be very very appreciated, as I would need this to go well! Or how to make it even safer. Tysm