Dating and Availability: A Rant
Not sure what I am looking for I just think I needed to scream into the void
I am happy with my life, have a good job, good friends, and would love someone to share it with. But it feels like every dating experience they can't communicate, aren't emotionally available, or still have feelings or complications with their ex
No matter how great, healthy or healed they seem, every one seems to break down because they aren't ready, can't commit, or go hot and cold with intensity and I am left feeling confused by the switch because there was no communication
The frustrating thing is I try to hard to heal and work on myself, I've been through therapy and can communicate. I almost wish they were telling me its because I keep doing x, at least then I could change something I was doing wrong
I know I am young (early 30s) and there's so much time but its making me lose trust in people because it feels like everytime I open myself up I get hurt
Edit to clarify: by healed I am no way insinuating we are ever healed, i meant healed from past relationships in the sense of ready to start something new without hanging on to the past in a way that's unhealthy