Should i breakup with him? And other questions related
I (They/them (She/her tolerated), 20, afab if that matters) am dating a man (he/him,22) since a few days now. Something very new. I am queer and been opened about it and out for years now. Always preferred women but always ended up with men except one ex who was NB.
When i think of my future, i definitely see myself with a woman. When i think of love, I see a woman. I’m physically attracted to him no doubts about that. But the only person i’m actually sure i loved romantically was my nb ex… i know that sounds really bad and yes i’m over them now but would this means that i am gay romantically but like pansexual??
My current boyfriend loves me but it’s getting harder to say it back (since i’ve started questioning the whole thing). I dont see myself marrying him (He knows that). All of this is really bugging me because my bf and i agreed to stay friends and knew it was a matter of time before breaking up but it’s REALLY EARLY in the relationship and i dont want to break up for something i’ve never had so far? I know i dont come off as a good person rn but is it that greedy to want the love i’ve always wanted? Is my preference for woman too strong or is it a normal queer thing? So sorry for all those questions but dear reddit users, i need your wisdom.