How do you measure your social skills ?
Since it's is a skill, how do you measure it ? How do you know you're good at it ?
I was a pretty shy person when I was young and after some persistence I finally though that I was in a good place socially.
But I got a new job with a completely different person. They're completely different from me - they came from different part of the country, they travelled, they have their own houses, bought cars and bikes, got kids. In brief, they have more life experience.
Naturally I have a little trouble with integrating this group and I"m self-conscious around them. I'm not feeling hopeless with this anymore like I used to. My concern is that even if I manage to work through this particular group, I don't know when will I finally feel like I get it ? Am I actually good or did I tell stories about myself ? Will should I still work on it to improve and when it will be finally enough ?
Thanks !