u/Little_Aplha

Hi, I’m looking for a relationship but I’m taking things slow. Down below is a well detailed profile about me.

Tall girl appreciator
**Age:** 21, open to 20-34ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

**Appearance:** 5'7 1/2", long/ medium black hair (mainly wear cornrows), brown eyes, black (Brown) skin, skinny-fit body type. I dress mainly masculine presenting. However, I have more of a feminine character I’m a bit of a malewife. I’ve got a baby face and squeaky voice. (My voice didn’t get deeper).

**Location:** London (east)/essex. I'm open to dating and within the Uk. I'm open to a long distance relationship however, we won’t be able to meet each other immediately as I’m quite busy. I’d prefer someone local or close by so that we can eventually get together in person is important.

**Looking For:** The other half I have been longing for. A partner and best friend in one. I’m looking for a "domme"/Masc woman, but a real relationship who leads and I follow.

**What I want in a partner:** Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding, a protector. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, Fit and sporty, communicates well and Discipline.

**Non-sexual interests:** Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), animated cartoons, music, art, sci-fi stuff of all varieties (Star wars). I enjoy a lot of video games some of my favorite game series include FIFA, smash bros, Mario Kart,battlefield, 2K, GTA and retro games. I’m also sporty I play football (Soccer) watch sports (UFC, soccer and basketball).

I would love to try and get involved in other games like league for example a lot of people i went to school with played always had an interest but never really got into.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music,investing, watch tv/movies (I’m a big action fan), share memes, read, and do some art mainly drawing as well discussing politics and issues that happen around the world. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

**Personality:** Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. intelligent, Funny, and sometimes a bit silly.

I’m also very reasonable, I’m not combative with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills.

It’s really difficult to describe yourself by writing but I hope you’ve got an idea.

**Sexual stuff**

**Are you fully sub or a switch?:** Probably a **very strongly** sub . I prefer being the receiver/ giving but I’m not in control.

**Are you only sexually sub or enjoy nonsexual aspects as well?:** I *really* enjoy the nonsexual aspects as well I love being the submissive partner cooking, cleaning and following my woman’s lead.

*Sexual (and relationship) interests:** I'm new to a lot of things, I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

* Role reversal is my favourite! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
* I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. A bit like a traditional relationship but I’m your Wife.
* Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
* I I’m a bit anxious but I think it’s because I’m still new, but I feel like with the right women I’d be open and calm. I'm very happy to show my devotion even to the point of feminine clothes. Just make sure to treat me well!
* Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
* Kissing/licking (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites.
* Cuddling, being held, affection, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you
I also love holding hands.

**Hard limits (non exhaustive):** Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, and anything violent related.

**Partner preferences:** I'm a big fan of alt/ Masc/tomboy look. Shortish hair is a big plus I also do love long hair. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone. I love Women who are muscular and fit.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, I’m open in terms of height but I do prefer taller women. So these are sadly strong preferences.

**Dealbreakers/Requirements:** Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. Please be honest I’m open to women who are on a *Serious* fitness journey.

Finally, I do have certain beliefs when it comes to having the fem role, I personally believe it’s important for me to learn the culture of my Dominant partner Food, language (at least know a few phrases). This is important to me as it shows that I respect you and I’m willing to follow your lead.

I do have a preference for black women but I’m open to meeting other women as well.

My DM’s are always open honestly don’t be shy I’m probably more shy than you 🙈☺️

Hi guys blk male early 20s as a submissive blk male I was hoping for some advice. As someone who loves Dom/masc women who lead in relationships and prefers the sub/fem role I struggle when it comes to interacting with women. A lot of women of all races to be honest always expect me to be some sort of stereotype I’ve never dated in my life and never been in a relationship but when I interact with Women, they expect me to be the stereotype of what they think a blk man or man is. I’m sure all guys go through this as well however, I feel like society doesn’t expect blk men who don’t conform to stereotypes. I’m 5’7 1/2 and I prefer being the softer partner 😩 I like to cook, clean and pamper my future women. It’s even harder in the RR community everyone has a preference which is fine I’m not offended by that as I too have preferences but it’s a struggle even in the blk community as a lot of women who are masc presenting tend to be lesbians and a lot of women who are dom are just into bdsm which respectfully I’m not into. The blk community not just frown upon but mock and hate men who have anything remotely seen as feminine. Finally, it’s a struggle to find other blk women who are also into RR. I was just hoping if I could get some advice. Maybe I should go to events or join groups that have women that I’d been interested?

My appearance: baby faced early 20s UK 5’7 1/2 long/medium hair (mainly wear cornrows) male presenting ( with a bit of a feminine character)

Just thought I’d leave that there to help you imagine what I’d looked like. 😅