u/Little_Resolve_1968

To whoever sees this, hello! I'm coming this fall as a transfer student from Wilfrid Laurier University into the BA Psychology program. I'm writing this post for any/all help and advice i can get to make it smoother to transition into campus - what classes to take, study spots around campus, joining clubs/associations, events, registering for classes (wlu used LORIS, idk the name of the site York U uses), grade information etc etc LITERALLY ANY HELP ADVICE TIPS INFORMATION THAT I CAN USE PLEASE AND THANK YOU I HOPE I CAN MAKE GOOD FRIENDS THIS FALL :D

(also following this i heard that most times transfer students arent allowed to join clubs/associations, is this true? because i really wna explore this aspect)

Are ID208 and YC208 the same? Like has anyone taken these together/separately and are they very diff from the other or basically the same (class numbers and class names are the same). I also have little to no background in maths so does EM212 - Remodelling Relations with Math require alot of math that id need to mentally prepare ahead for? Also how is PS287 Gender of Psych? Any/all help with be appreciated (I'm doing Youth and Children's with teaching option and psych minor if anyone has suggestions on classes i should/shouldnt take) Thank you!

I've been friends with this girl since 2018 when she joined in middle school. We got close really quickly we talked about everything with eachother - crushes, school, movies, hobbies - everything. We'd spend every minute in school together and texted eachother around the clock 24/7. Fast forward to 2023, she'd developed a crush on a guy in my grade and by the time the winter of 2024 came around, they'd been dating for a while. I was obviously happy for her and for her new relationship and I'd known the guy since childhood cuz we went to the same school and he was a good guy and a good friend of mine and she genuinely deserved the happiness that it brought her. After graduation, she stayed our home country and the bf and i moved to Canada for university. With such a major life change, our talking decreased due to the time zone difference and I obviously still made an effort to talk to her as often as i could (because i was putting in the same effort with my otehr long distance friends) but after about 2 weeks of texting her and not getting ANY response from her, I also pretty much gave up on trying to maintain the talking between us. By the time November of 2025 rolled around, I'd pretty much given up talking to her (and acc to my uni + other home friends, they also agreed that it wasnt worth the energy) and before this, I'd told her alot about my struggles of moving and being alone and a bunch of other stuff going on in my life and my family. In dec i found out she'd been telling her bf EVERYTHING that i told her - inclduing all my family issues - and obviously i was like what the hell because I trusted her with what I'd been telling her cuz i hadnt told ANYONE else. This naturally pissed me off even more because she shouldve asked me before saying anything to anyone especially if its on a personal level like that. By this point I hadn't spoken to her since October and in my mind i was like 'theres no point in talking to her anymore' and then in the start of 2026, she randomly texted me again acting all normal and best friend-y which pissed me off and also why she was trying to 'maintain the friendship after months of radio silence' I still had her added on socials but I was slowly starting to get annoyed whenever she posted smth cuz i honestly just didnt give a shit anymore so i hid my stories from her viewing and also muted her stories so i wouldnt have to see them when she posted. She's been randomly texting me to give me her 'life updates' and being like 'OMG GIRL WE HAVENT SPOKEN IN SO LONG' but i honeslty just want nothing to do with her anymore because I am tired - first because of the fact that i was the only one putting effort and then from her mvoing past it all and acting like everything was and still is normal. My uni friends and my other friends from home told me to distance myself from her so i dont have to deal with all her bs anymore so I'm wondering AITA for wanted to cut her off.