u/LiveEducation6949

I am approaching 30 and I realized I completely wasted the prime years of my life focusing on my education getting my masters degree and focusing on my career. Never had a relationship, never went out and partied. I can do those things now but I don't see people my age doing that which sucks a lot.

Most ppl my age are now settling down or going on their second marriage. Does anyone else feel like they wasted there entire 20s?

I had to make a reddit account about this because this is honestly just ruining my life at this point.

I am A 29 year old man and I am beyond exhausted because I cannot find a woman who is willing to commit to a long term relationship like I am.

I have gotten my entire life together, I have a masters degree in IT, have a high paying career and living alone with my cat. I have many hobbies such as cooking classes, yoga, reading club, hiking group and I also travel solo a lot. I've been using Hinge mostly for online dating since I want a long term relationship.

I tend to date women my age and older and a lot of them are afraid of a long term relationship. Initially there on board with it but when I ask them seriously they tell me "Well I'm not sure..." or they tell me that there are better options for guys out there for them. I'm so tired of the games, I've never had a relationship in my life and I'm not interested in anything casual and want something serious but its so hard to find.

I'm not sure what to do at this point, this has been too much of a struggle for me now.

I had to make a reddit account about this because this is honestly just ruining my life at this point.

I am A 29 year old man and I am beyond exhausted because I cannot find a woman who is willing to commit to a long term relationship like I am.

I have gotten my entire life together, I have a masters degree in IT, have a high paying career and living alone with my cat. I have many hobbies such as cooking classes, yoga, reading club, hiking group and I also travel solo a lot. I've been using Hinge mostly for online dating since I want a long term relationship.

I tend to date women my age and older and a lot of them are afraid of a long term relationship. Initially there on board with it but when I ask them seriously they tell me "Well I'm not sure..." and I just don't have time for games.

I'm not sure what to do at this point, this has been too much of a struggle for me now.