u/Living_Branch

Hello there, I'm looking into learning the Finnish language so that I can communicate to some of my friends better. Any resources that people have that I should look for?

A bit of background, she and I were both streamers. I live in the USA she lives in Germany. I'm 36M and she's 38F. I have been with her for nearly 8 years. We have been planning marriage for years but never had the budget until just recently, I visited her last September 2025. Because of time and restrictions from both of our jobs. So I know something is odd about this situation.

Okay so let's get to the meat, I got a message from him back in 2019 about trying to get ahold of her. (I'll call him S to help later) I said I can try to get a message, but she might not reply. He goes on and admits to stalking and with a username we had already banned on her channel for being creepy towards her. And then didn't hear from him again. But now currently he typed on her discord channel to tell everyone claiming he was he boyfriend and she died. So after that I used my contacts she gave me and contacted her best friend I will call B. (just to clarify I have never talked to her before) But B told me that she really had passed on and was accusitory towards her about being a heavy drinker ect, which I said it wasn't possible she didn't drink heavily. I accuse S to B that he was a stalker and such and I don't believe him and with this he gets on the discord channel and acts all angery, "my neighbor has been calling me a stalker and then goes on saying she died from being a drunk." And all of that afterwards he uses her account to delete her discord channel.

It goes on, with this talking to B, she sends a voice message. It sounds like my my fiance like through and through. That makes me worried that he was being possessive of her and forcing her to fake her death to end our relationships. And she keeps going on and on about she is dead but very aggressively towards me, like maybe she had to say it that way? So in my mind some thing really major is going on, like even if I was mistaken and she died then there's still the problem of the stalker being in her life. And so now I'm stuck with the need to know so I can get a conclusion or if the police should be involved.

Anyway I have more to say but I'll leave it like this and continue to add things.

I will provide all of the information of who's who if needed. But for now it will be blank unless I know someone can help.