u/Livluvcats

Hi!! Looking for recs for December 16-20 adults only all inclusive hot, beach, good food, some entertainment would be nice too. Super excited to celebrate my 30th! Was going to go back to Punta Cana and stay at Live Aqua (we honeymooned here) . But wondering what else you recommend! My husband will not do Mexico so somewhere else please :) looking to stay around $1,500 per person all in. We have a couple of travel cards that can help off set if it is a bit over though. Flying out of Detroit. Thanks so much!!

Hi everyone 😭 I had an ectopic pregnancy in 2015 didn’t even know I was pregnant woke up in shock rushed to the er emergency removal and lost my left tube because it had burst. Fast forward to this previous Thursday I went into the er with really bad abdominal pain and bleeding which is what alerted me because I have an iud and have never bled with it before. Turns out I’m pregnant with HCG levels in the 550s. They sent me home because they said it was too early to see on an ultrasound (which I did receive). Bleeding stopped early Friday and most of the pain has gone now. I have an appointment with my OBGYN on Tuesday. HOWEVER I woke up today (Sunday) with this dull pain on my right side no other symptoms but I am terrified that it’s another ectopic pregnancy the previous one was so traumatizing I was only 18. My husband suggested I wait till my appointment Tuesday but I’m really leaning towards maybe going back to the er but I don’t know if it would be visible by now? I don’t really know what I’m looking for or if the dull pain is just in my head because of the anxiety. Has anyone experienced this? How quickly can an ectopic go from nothing to an emergency at this size? 😭 I wish I could call my doctor but they’re obviously closed until tomorrow. All I keep thinking about is 2015 and I was not with my husband at the time so I feel like he doesn’t quite understand. Lots of love to everyone this is such a terrible thing to be going through.

Update: I ended up going back to the er on Sunday. It was in fact ectopic barely into my tube. I was given methotrexate injections and am resting at home.