u/Locktic

Hi i have a french intensive starting soon and i just realized that I wont be able to make it to one of the days as i have a training for a job. What do i do? Do i fail if i miss a class?

TL;DR: Met this girl at a party, had flirty moments, later found out she has a boyfriend—but now she’s showing interest. You’re into her but unsure whether to pursue because it could involve cheating.

So I met this girl at a party last weekend. I end up in a line dance behind her. There was no space so i was really up close with her, her butt on me, she looks back and continues. After the line dance, I go back up to her and grab her by the waist, she looks back again and then starts grinding on me. We don't even talk, she just continues grinding. I left the party without saying goodbye, leaving it as something that stays at the party.

I get home and me being curious, I find her Instagram and find out that we go to the same uni. Then I see that she has a whole boyfriend. I was going to leave it as is and not get into it, whatever happened at the party stays at the party.

A couple days later she likes one of my Instagram posts that i had posted more than a year ago. The next day I like 2 of her posts, this was probably a bad decision on my part. Since then there has been multiple instances of her looking at me and making eye contact at uni, she followed me and tried to get more information about me from some of my mutual friends.

I have a strong feeling she's into me. I find her very pretty, but the fact that she has a boyfriend does complicate things a lot. If I do get into a relationship with the girl, i do plan to make it more short-term/casual because I understand that if she can do this to her current boyfriend, she can do this to me. I do want to pursue this, but I don't want her cheating on her current boyfriend. I need some advice.