u/LogicallyUnreason

I waited till I got married. But how I coped until then was by constant porn and masturbation.

Now when I got married and got ready to have sex, I can't even get hard for my partner, but only to porn.

I feel doomed and depressed now. I can't even get aroused for my partner.

What to do..

I am dating someone now, in my 30s, never tried sex before, I used to masturbate everyday, even now, to porn, I edge a lot,

But when it comes to sex, I kiss, but I don't enjoy it, I lick her breasts and all, but I don't enjoy it, and I don't get hard to put it inside her

While I get very hard watching porn and edging.

Please help me, what to do