u/Lomasgo

On Bumble as a woman looking for man, as in “open to seeing where things go”

I know this has been asked before but I am just curious to understand the men’s mindset behind this.
I get lots of likes and I do match some of them, including the super swipes. I also say hello first . But in the end only one out of 10 would reply.
This is so bizarre.
So, is it a wrong swipe , but I don’t think all of them are ?
Or , me just saying hello is not enough? For those who have questions I do answer them.
Whatever the reason, 10% reply rate is quite low.
I feel this is such a waste of time . If you are not interested then don’t like? Or just unmatch ?

Why do men do this ? Technically curious.

I don’t get it — what’s the deal with BFF?
I thought I could try find some gals to hang out together , but most of them are unbelievably pretty and stylish, almost all have put their IG accounts.

I am confused … is this for genuine friendship or personal promotion??

I don’t mean the guys in the gym would bother me , it’s rather the fact there are so few women there . I want to use weight but that area is always occupied by men in groups . I am just getting back to gym and confidence level is not very high.

Title typo: gym alone