u/Lonely-Statement1

Hi everyone,
I’m hoping someone here can point me in the right direction because I’m absolutely heartbroken.

I’m currently going through a divorce after leaving an abusive marriage involving domestic violence. For my safety, I have to move, and unfortunately I’m going somewhere that won’t allow me to keep my dog. I’ve exhausted every option I can think of, and surrendering her is the last thing I ever wanted to do.

She is a senior pit bull and the sweetest dog I’ve ever known. She’s very low-energy, spends most of the day sleeping, loves short walks, and is happiest just being next to her person. She’s incredibly affectionate with people.
She does best as the only pet because she really prefers human companionship over other animals.

She’s happiest in a home where she can have her humans to herself.
What scares me the most is that she’s an older pit bull. I know senior dogs and bully breeds already have a hard time getting adopted, and I don’t want her to end up sitting in a shelter for the rest of her life after everything we’ve been through together.

Does anyone know of any reputable senior dog sanctuaries, pit bull rescues, or no-kill organizations in Central Florida that might be able to help? Even organizations outside Central Florida that accept owner surrenders would be appreciated. I’m willing to drive if it means she has the best chance at living out the rest of her life somewhere safe and loved.
Please be kind. This is the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make, and I’m devastated that I’m even having to ask.

Thank you so much for any recommendations or resources. ❤️

I’m looking for outside opinions because I’m genuinely not sure what’s considered “too soon.”

My husband and I decided to divorce in March after years of emotional abuse and some incidents of domestic abuse (7years). The marriage had been emotionally over for me long before we officially decided to separate, but March was when we both agreed the relationship was done and started moving toward divorce.

Recently, I met someone unexpectedly. We connected in a way I haven’t experienced before. We have amazing chemistry, but beyond that, our values, morals, communication styles, and personalities seem to align really well. We genuinely enjoy each other’s company and have developed strong feelings for each other.
Part of me is excited because the connection feels healthy and natural. Another part of me worries that I’m moving too fast because I’m technically still going through a divorce.

For those who have been divorced or left abusive
relationships: how soon is “too soon” to start a new relationship? Is it more about the amount of time that has passed, or whether you’ve emotionally processed and healed from your previous relationship?
I’d appreciate honest opinions, even if they’re not what I want to hear.