u/Lonely_Quality2135

Hi all my current partner has just disclosed he caught genital herpes after an oral sex from a woman with a cold sore.

He caught this 10 years ago and I slept with him 4 years ago for a few months (in a relationship) then we broke up and I knew nothing about it.

I’ve been with him again the last 2/3 months and he’s finally told me today about it, I’m obviously absolutely heartbroken he never told me but the forefront of my mind is me having it and my health and wellbeing.

He says he hasn’t slept with me during an active outbreak and I don’t remember ever seeing anything down there but now I’ve read about shedding when he isn’t having an active outbreak.

I’m absolutely terrified because I’m also now pregnant with his baby 💔 I haven’t touch wood had any symptoms the last 4 years since I last slept with him or since starting to sleep with him again.

What are the chances, can I get tested for this to see if I do have it or not? Where do I go from here please?

Hi all my current partner has just disclosed he caught genital herpes after an oral sex from a woman with a cold sore.

He caught this 10 years ago and I slept with him 4 years ago for a few months (in a relationship) then we broke up and I knew nothing about it.

I’ve been with him again the last 2/3 months and he’s finally told me today about it, I’m obviously absolutely heartbroken he never told me but the forefront of my mind is me having it and my health and wellbeing.

He says he hasn’t slept with me during an active outbreak and I don’t remember ever seeing anything down there but now I’ve read about shedding when he isn’t having an active outbreak.

I’m absolutely terrified because I’m also now pregnant with his baby 💔 I haven’t touch wood had any symptoms the last 4 years since I last slept with him or since starting to sleep with him again.

What are the chances, can I get tested for this to see if I do have it or not? Where do I go from here please?

Doing 35 in a 30 (just before a 40 sign)
Van windows facing towards me but closed, looked in my rear view and the police man was putting his coat on in the front.

Went back the opposite way 5/6 mins later and the van was gone. How cooked am I?!