u/Longjumping-Good9321

Hey all,
Need advice on keeping the passion alive.
I am a Landscape Architect working as a city planner in Germany. My role here is beginner even though I've worked in the US (which is where I got my masters) for 2-3 yrs at a prestigious firm. I found this job after years of applying. I understand that I must focus on learning the language to grow here.
I am just very unmotivated and have no passion for the job I do. It pays the bills, yes.
But I just don't look at Architecture with passion anymore. I don't look at design anymore. I walk past all these beautiful countries I visit with a blind eye towards Architecture (maybe cos there is alot of history.)
I want to reignite the spark, I know it is in there. What can I do?

Hey all,
You probably have an understanding of where this is going.
I will be 32(f) this year and husband turns 34. We don’t have kids yet and are thinking if we should try this year or next year. We both love kids. Kids from other parents. Especially cos when they cry I can hand them over to their parents. That’s my off switch. But if I had kids on my own it’s a commitment for life. Which ones you dive you swim baby!
My question is for those who haven’t had kids and for those who tried and did not succeed.
What drives you in life now? What is your zeal that’s taking you forward? Does it get boring and stale in your relationships?
And do you regret not having a baby?

Hey all,
You probably have an understanding of where this is going.
I will be 32(f) this year and husband turns 34. We don’t have kids yet and are thinking if we should try this year or next year. We both love kids. Kids from other parents. Especially cos when they cry I can hand them over to their parents. That’s my off switch. But if I had kids on my own it’s a commitment for life. Which ones you dive you swim baby!
My question is for those who haven’t had kids and for those who tried and did not succeed.
What drives you in life now? What is your zeal that’s taking you forward? Does it get boring and stale in your relationships?
And do you regret not having a baby?