I’m rushing 4 houses and these are the rush schedules. This is at a BIG10 school with a solid Greek life presence.
House A: Sunday: 5-7PM Monday-Thursday: 6-8PM
House B: Sunday-Thursday: 5-7PM
House C: Sunday-Thursday: 6-8PM
House D: Sunday-Thursday: 5:30-7:30 PM
How should I approach rush and which days/times should I spend at each house? They are all 5-10m walking distance from one another.
Is it fine for me to wear my Antonio brown Steelers jersey to rush for fun. Will it be taken in a lighthearted way or will they dislike it?
I’m rushing at a big10 school.
I’m fully new to this whole thing and I want to get the RL country polos… like the once with say FRANCE or GERMANY on them. How do I go about finding where to get very similar reps??? I don’t understand how to find agents or what apps or sites to even use.
Can someone please break it down for me lol
For context, I am a 20 year old about to enter my junior year of college.
I haven’t cried since my freshman year of high school when I was like 14. Last week, I had to use my dad’s phone for something and found dozens of dating apps on it. I didn’t want to believe what I was seeing but there was no doubt that he had downloaded dating apps and either used them or was still using them. Shamelessly had over 15 downloaded.
I love my mom so much and I know this would absolutely wreck her if she found out. I have a 10 year old sister as well and I don’t want me bringing this up to ruin her childhood by my parents having a messy divorce. I cry almost every time I think about this since I always believed my parents truly loved each other.
At this point I feel so fucking helpless. I would never imagine such a thing happening but here I am. My dad has always provided for us a lot and has always tried to be a great family guy. That’s what makes all this even worse. I can’t ever go on a family outing again without this sitting in the back of my head and the guilt just kills me. My dad pays for my college so I can’t even risk him stopping that if I decide to say something and blow up the family.
What on earth should I even do? I’m genuinely devastated and I can’t even begin to imagine the pain I’d have to see my mom go through if I told her. I can’t even look at my dad in the same way anymore. The guilt is absolutely destroying me and quite frankly I just wish I never found out.
My dad is the clear breadwinner as well so even if my mom had to separate, she wouldn’t be able to sustain a great life financially without my dad. A this point I just want whatever’s best for my mother so what should I even do?