Bachelorette Trips
The bride has proposed a week-long trip to a Caribbean island for her bachelorette in Jan/Feb 2027. The bride is in her late 30s and we are more or less in that age range We live in a cold climate and I generally go to the Caribbean in the winter to escape the snow...so in theory I could go since I allot a week for a winter getaway. However it's becoming increasingly clear that the bride expects all the guests to do everything together in recognition and celebration of her and her upcoming wedding. Which of course is the purpose of the trip but it's 7 days. Someone suggested an island that she would like to explore and the bride said she is open to any destination but really is focused on staying at the resort except for maybe a few club nights. I haven't been to bachelorette in a while and I travel frequently either solo or with my family/husband or friends...but I am use to breaking away from the group for alone time or to do separate activities. Before I accept...I want to understand if that is the general expectation that the entire time is focused on the bride despite we are all paying and taking time off work for a vacation.... thoughts?